I am a Christian. I want to believe with all my heart that God and Jesus won't judge me becaus eof my sexuality. But...so many people say and think otherwise. And now I'm starting to wonder as well...I sometimes am on the verge of tears because of it! Please...tell me what you think. Does God hate me because I like both girls and boys?
Based on that experience, and based on my experience attending Christian elementary, middle, and high school, I can say without a doubt: you are not judged. Being who you are is NOT a sin.
The texts and lessons that modern Christians can lean on -- namely those found in the New Testament -- make it clear that Jesus loved everyone for who they were at the core: human beings who have equal dignity and are deserving of equal respect. So, if there are folks out there who are treating you poorly, please just know inside that they are not following what their faith demands of them!
Take care. We're so glad that you're a part of our community here. I wish you all the best!
I've recommended this essay to others, and I'll pass it on to you. It's written by Rev. Mel White, and it's called What the Bible Says- And Doesn't Say- About Homosexuality. I found it to be very educational.