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I guess it seems like a fair question. "When did you choose to be gay?" Of course, asking me that is like asking me when I decided to have a face.
I have always had a face. I was born with it, and I plan to keep my face for the rest of my life. Things may happen and my face may change, but for now I have my face, and I am comfortable with it.
The same thing goes for my sexuality. I'm gay, I've almost always known I was gay, and I am comfortable with it. For now I don't think I could dientify any other way, but I don't know what the future holds for me, so I honestly can't say that I will identify as a homosexual male for the rest of my life.
I never chose to be gay. Living where I do, that would be a VERY dumb choice. Dealing with all of harassment, threats, and snide remarks I do makes it into a choice I can honestly say I would not make.
I don't know anyone that CHOSE their sexuality. Whenever I'm asked when I chose to be gay, I like to reply "When did you choose to be straight?" It goes both ways, let's all remember that.
thought you would enjoy this, too!
"When did you choose to be straight???"
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=QJtjqLUHYoY