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Have you ever signed up for a gay website, in hopes of meeting a cute guy with some common interest? I have… Websites like gays.com, downlink, justguys, they are all the same! I guess they are great if you just wanna do the deed and move on. Not once did I meet a quality guy. Most of the guys who approached me through email or winks only wanted to see a picture of my penis and only offered pictures of their penis.
Why do I want to see your junk right away??? I mean, yea I might be a little interested, but it is a big turn off to meet a guy whose profile picture is just his cock and nothing else.
For the most part all penises look the same. I need a face, guys. Or a personality would be cool too. I feel like my generation has taking the connecting part out of flirting.
Most gay social sites seem to be a place to hook up. Literally, I came across many profiles that said no inhibitions, five emails or less or don’t bother. So much for getting to know each other. Other people would ask for my number. I learned very quickly not to give out my number or I would be bombarded by sex-text and nude shots and then they would demand that I follow suit and send my junk through the virtual web into their mail box.
I do understand the appeal of these websites. There is less risk and a wider selection to choose from, but I feel like you are giving up the ability to get to know someone face to face.
Whatever method you choose to meet people, online, in person, on craigslist, please remember to be safe. Let a friend know where you are. Meet in a public place, if it is your first face to face meeting with a new person. Bring protection if you are intending to participate in sexual intercourse of any nature. The rule is, if your pants are at your ankles it’s a safe idea to pull out a condom. Don’t be afraid to say no and have a way out of the situation if need be.
