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Blog - Amplify your voice

Friday, January 22, 2010 at 9:51:00 PM EST

Not a literal argument, more internal, but an argument nonetheless.

I walked into first hour with every intention of having a good day. It was Friday, I was going to breeze through the day, everything was going to be good. Before first hour starts, a girl -let's call her Anna- walks into the class wearing a shirt that says, "Abortion is Murder!" Then it has a bunch of biblical quotes and abortion "facts" on the back. Without giving my views on abortion, I'm going to say why I think it was a horrible idea.

First off, she's the "religious" girl in our graduating class of 50 at most. She's the one who argues Christianity and shoves it down everyone's throat. No matter what, Anna was breaking a dress code rule by wearing something offending. As much as I wanted to take it up with the principal, I didn't.  Even so, if things went perfectly and they did get onto her, she wouldn't have gotten more than a verbal reprimand.

My school, nay, my town is almost entirely composed of absolute conservatives. They believe that every liberal idea is wrong. That is why she didn't get into trouble for the shirt. Eight teachers, probably more, saw the shirt and said nothing. If Anna had worn a shirt like that in a liberal school, she would have been suspended in a snap. So, is my school showing by saying, "As long as we agree with it, it isn't wrong"? What if I wore a shirt that condoned drinking and driving? That's against dress code. But if you don't say anything about it, does that make it okay?

The main reason this offended me is if someone wore a shirt saying, "Abortion is okay," or, "I support love. Say NO to Prop 8," they would be suspended. These shirts also offend people.  Although, this would be taken much more seriously since they are considered "wrong". They are allowing Anna to wear that shirt because they believe that it is morally right. My non-rhetorical question for the day is: What lesson is my school teaching by saying that this girl is right to wear a shirt that can offend anyone, as long as it follows their mindset?

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I think that you should definitely say something to the principal or another administrator at your school about this. This girl did something at school that made you feel uncomfortable, and school should not be a place where you feel your voice or your views are irrelevant or not as valid or important. I'm sure it offended some other students as well. If you say something about it, and if the others say something about it as well, it may make an impact. It can start with you. I'm not sure if the girl would be suspended for wearing the shirt at a more "liberal" school, but if they would suspend you if you wore a more "liberal" shirt, then there's definitely something very wrong with the dress code.
# Posted By Mahayana | 1/23/10 12:48 AM | Report | Reply
 Depending on your school's harassment policy, this shirt could be a definite problem.  I was in a law class and a shirt that said "homosexuality is a sin!" was deemed inappropriate on the grounds of the harassment policy at the school.  If the school offended you and interrupted your school day in any way, it is most likely an issue.  If the school would penalize you for a shirt like "abortion is okay," etc. but they won't do anything to her, it is viewpoint discrimination.  I'm about 90% sure that cases like this have gone to the Supreme Court.  It's nothing to be taken lightly.  I would definitely say something to your principal and, if they disagree with you being uncomfortable, you can take it to someone higher than them.  Wearing a shirt like that is NOT okay and most likely surpasses freedom of speech rights... 
# Posted By cmartin626 | 1/23/10 06:30 PM | Report | Reply