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Blog - Amplify your voice

Friday, February 5, 2010 at 10:52:00 AM EST

Coming from a part of the world where the female folks are most times regarded and treated as inferior to male, because as most they say, “we were created from the man and hence subject to the man’s wishes and demands”, even when they go against our own wishes and demands as females and  human being. Do not get me wrong, I am not saying that the female folks are in any way superior to their male counterparts, l only mean our rights and demands sometimes if not all the time should be seen as equals.

 

Aisha a 15 year old young girl, is one in a million cases of forced-early marriages, a case that is predominant in the northern part of Nigeria. Aisha as a child grew up attending a UBE (Universal Basic Education) scheme school; a scheme established to provide free basic education to all citizens but has not met up with this provision hence charges and levies to children in the schools. Aisha tried to put in her best in school, because she had a curious and inquisitive mind, with the hopes of one day becoming a teacher to help groom other children. But this hopes were brought to ruins when on one sunny Friday, she returned home from school to find her father with a stranger, and on coming into the house, she heard her father saying to the man “it ace ken an”, meaning “she is the one.” Not knowing what it meant greeted the stranger and went into the house to see her mother.

 

Life continued for Aisha, until about twenty days later when she returned home from school only to meet the same man in their house, but this time, her mother was also seated with the group, and Aisha was told that she was been given out in marriage, as the man (apparently had some money to play with), had offered her family some money in exchange for her. So there was Aisha, 15 years going on to become a wife to a man thrice her age, and eventually a possible mother at 16 years or maybe less.

 

Now, at her she is suppose to be a child with rights but apparently a young girl without any privilege or a voice of her own, even when there is a constitution in place which states that everyone has a right to speak and be heard. Being female limits her choices and incapable of making any developmental decisions. Her culture limits her fundamental right as a human being so how do we begin to bridge the gap between culture and a lady’s fundamental human right..

 

For how long will all these continues, does it mean we don’t have a saying to the right of a women, our hopes and aspiration, dreams and visions being shattered. Its time we speak and refuse to be intimidated by our culture and tradition.


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Comments
"It's time we speak and refuse to be intimidated by our culture and tradition."- I agree!!
I just finished reading a book by NicholasKristof and Sheryl WuDunn called "Half the Sky: Turning Oppression into Opportunity for Women Worldwide." I think you'd really like it.
# Posted By AFY_Samantha | 2/6/10 01:55 AM | Reply