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Thursday, March 5, 2009 at 1:45:00 PM EST

(This blog is crossposted at ACLU's Blog of Rights)

Last winter, the mother of one of my school friends wondered if I would circulate a petition amongst the students. The idea of the petition was to encourage students to make their voices heard — to let the school board know we wanted a comprehensive sex education curriculum. One day, while collecting signatures in the lunchroom, my principal stopped me. She told me that I was “misinformed,” that the school board didn’t have an abstinence-only policy.

After that, I was involved in an incredible number of meetings and discussions. My principal told me that I was out of place and I wasn’t collecting signatures at the right time. I knew that I had been doing it appropriately. I only asked students to sign before and after school and at lunch. I was not disrupting anybody’s education. She wouldn’t drop it. Luckily, my mother works in a law firm that does pro bono work for ACLU, and they were on my side. I talked to them and learned about the rights I had.

During a meeting the next day, I told my principal that I had a right to do what I was doing; the First Amendment said so. She dropped everything and she agreed to let Planned Parenthood come to our school and teach a group of older students to be Peer Helpers and talk to classmates about any issues they were having with friends, significant others, or with sex. I had won the first battle; I still wanted to win the war.

On February 24, I attended the Pittsburgh Board of Education meeting to speak on behalf of the students. Nine other students were there as well. A small group of us met up beforehand, had dinner together, and discussed what we wanted to say and how we were going to say it. It was a wonderful feeling to be with other teenagers who felt so passionately about adopting a comprehensive sex education program.

I was treated with wonderful respect. Nobody yelled at me or called me inappropriate names. Many adults and teachers even walked up to me, thanking me for being at the meeting. Finally, it was my turn to speak. I sat down in the chair, turned on the microphone, and looked right at the superintendent, daring him to turn my request down. After my speech, applause broke out. Shyly, I sat back down. A student sitting next to me congratulated me on my speech. I hoped the board would finally understand why sex education is important.

A few days later, I was on Facebook when my dad sent me a link. The board had passed the new policy. Students will now be learning from a comprehensive sex education curriculum. I was thrilled. I had made a difference. Teenagers will be able to get the information they needed. They can lead a healthy life, knowing everything they need to know about sex. I have helped the future generations of Pittsburgh, and I have never been happier.

I am a senior at a public high school in the Pittsburgh School District.

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GREAT WORK!!!
# Posted By  AFY_Joe | 3/5/09 02:15 PM | Report | Reply
Hey! Your story is so inspiring! Keep us updated on all the good work you're doing in Pittsburg :)

Meg
# Posted By AFY_Meghan | 3/5/09 03:01 PM | Report | Reply
That is so fantastic!!! I'm really proud of you!!
# Posted By Mahayana | 3/5/09 08:42 PM | Report | Reply
I am very proud of you for standing up for your right to be given accurate information about sexuality education.

While I agree that abstinence is the best choice for teens, I am concerned about the misleading and scientifically inaccurate information about the ineffectiveness of condoms and contraception in the abstinence-only curricula.  Scientific data shows that teens who receive these inaccurate facts are less likely to protect themselves from pregnancy and disease before marriage.  According to the Title V State Evaluations of Fives Years of Abstinence-Only-Until-Marriage Education: Assessing the Impact (www.advocatesforyouth.org) “abstinence-only programs show little evidence of sustained (long-term) impact on attitudes and intentions. Worse, they show some negative impacts on youth’s willingness to use contraception, including condoms, to prevent negative sexual health outcomes related to sexual intercourse.  Importantly, only in one state did any program demonstrate short-term success in delaying the initiation of sex; none of these programs demonstrates evidence of long-term success in delaying sexual initiation among youth exposed to the programs or any evidence of success in reducing other sexual risk-taking behavior among participants.”

Again, I do agree with the message of abstinence being the best choice, but I do want scientifically accurate information included about contraception and condoms to build knowledge, attitudes and skills for people of all ages when they become sexually active.  Teens in the US suffer from the highest rate of births and sexually transmitted infections in the industrialized world.  So, while abstinence is the best choice to avoid pregnancy, STD’s, and STI’s, I want my children, a girl and a boy, to be in an environment that supports and nurtures sexual health, models and teaches caring, compassion, respect, and justice. 

I want my kids to know that if they do end up having sex before they are married and would like to prevent pregnancy and disease, they deserve to have all the correct, scientific, medically accurate information available to them.  That is my responsibility.  I just wish that the educational institution they go to, and that they trust, would give them that same medically accurate information, not the “misleading” and scientifically inaccurate” information found in the abstinence-only curricula. 

I am so glad you stood up for your rights and the rights of your cohorts.  You all deserve the truth.

Dixie8270
# Posted By Dixie8270 | 3/9/09 03:02 PM | Report | Reply