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by: lonelyness95

Sunday, February 7, 2010 at 3:41:00 PM EST

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Thanks so mutch girls for reading my blogg it made me so happy. True though that straight, gay, lesbian. and bisexuals are all going through the same problem, but gay, lesbian, and bisexuals have it a lot harder than straight people do. Some people hide in the closet all there lives. Its so hard to find out whos gay lesbian or bisexual. most people look straight to me and its hard to decide to get up the courage to ask some one because they might be straight. I'm in love with my freind bradly and he dosnt even know it. My freinds say he's straight cause he gots a girlfreind. but i heard that some gays use that as cover. what should i do tell him or not how i feel. please help me.

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If you really like this friend so much, just try to hint around the subject if he's gay. I kind of have the same problem as you except she hasn't dated anyone yet. Hold on! :)

# Posted By phoenixflyinghigh | 2/7/10 05:20 PM | Report | Reply

I understand where you are coming from.... I have a huge crush on one of my friends. I'm pretty sure she is straight though, and she has a boyfriend. I wouldn't know how to say anything, so I mostly stay quiet. But I think that if you truely love him...you should go for it! But remember to proceed with caution! If you don't, you could end up losing a friend. Try to find out his sexual orientation for sure before mentioning anything to him. I wish you all the best of luck! Hang in there! :)

# Posted By sweet_confused_one | 2/7/10 08:46 PM | Report | Reply

Hey preston, im zack, im 13 and bisexual. Im the only one who knows except my sisters ex gf. If you wish to talk you can have my email n' my Msn zacharyflynn@hotmail.com (msn) germandog09@gmail.com(email) Please send me a email ok? Im up for a good talk :)! most bi people are girls as ive seen, so i wanna talk to another MALE.

# Posted By Zetcha | 2/9/10 01:09 AM | Report | Reply

i totally get your problem, i'm pretty much head-over-heels in love with one of my friends (i already know she's bi, but still same idea). maybe a good thing to do would be to tell him about a book or a news report or something (even if you have to make it up) that has to do with or is about a gay person, and try to figure out what his opinion on gay people is. (try to make it clear that you're for it, or he may pretend to be against it even if he isn't.) if his reaction is negative, then i hate to say it but it'd probably be best to go after someone else. if his reaction is positive, come out to him. watch his reaction and then try to figure out if he might be gay as well. (the idea here is that once you come out to him, if he's gay as well he may feel comfortable enough to come out to you as well. GOOD LUCK!!!!!

# Posted By Forever_Yaoi_Yuri_Rainbow | 2/9/10 05:21 PM | Report | Reply

Hello,

My name is Rikki, I am an online peer educator for youthresource. I see that you are wondering how you would express your feelings to a straight friend, and or how to find out if he is actually gay?

I hope I got that right.

Let's see.

Does he know that you are gay? If he knows that you are gay maybe ask him what he thinks about gay people.

I think that is a good start, if he is gay he might take the chance to open up to you.

Just please don't tell him he is gay, even if you suspect it, because well he needs to figure that our for himself, if he is.

I hope I understood your questions right, if not feel free to clarify.

Rikki

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