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Happy December!
Also this month is AIDS Awareness month, so be sure to wear red that week! Being AIDS awareness month and having my condoms arrive gave me the idea to focus on safe sex this month as a bulletin board and with my program. My bulletin board has sparked so much conversation which really makes me feel awesome! My program will come in about two weeks, its called "Sex in an Envelope" I'll have more details in a later post.. I hope to give away a large amount of condoms at my program!
Here is my board:

It is called "Do You Know Your ABC's?" and has the ABC's of safe sex! It was so much fun, except trying to fit all the letters.. i realized by the time I got to D that there would not be enough room for all of it so I did the best I could. My favorite part is the bottom.. I took a few of my condoms & wrote GOT CONDOMS? on the condoms themselves & also wrote where my room number is and said that I had condoms! Because of this I have spread the word that I have condoms up for grabs and residents I have never met before have come and asked me for condoms :)
It is so cute how awkward some of my residents are.. one day a resident saw me in the lobby & said he needed to talk to me later & I said sure, whenever your around I'll be here all night. Later I go up to my room and see him in his room so I mention that if he needed to talk to me we could & he asked if we could talk in my room. As soon as the door closed behind him he asked for some condoms.. he was too emberassed to ask me in front of everyone else! Too cute.
Okay well I hope everyone has a great few weeks and hopefully I'll be back online soon to tell about my program!
Kaitlin Russell
Resident Assistant
South Hall
Johnson & Wales University, Providence
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-Sarah
sarah@advocatesforyouth.org
And I love when people are awkward about getting condoms! It makes me smile. The LGBT office at UC is located next door to our wellness center. Our wellness center is amazing and has condoms, lube, advil, bandaids, cough drops and a few other things and you can take 3 free a day of each item. There is this one particular group of boys that come in every day and gets condoms. They are always really awkward, they come into the office, don't talk and walk in and back out really quickly.
One day the Wellness center was closed so they knocked on our door and asked if we knew when they would be back. They were closed for the day so I told them that and asked if we could help them with anything, they politely declined...of course I knew what they wanted so after that I decided that it would be good if our office also had condoms in the case that the wellness center is closed. Next time I will be ready with condoms available! So excited!
Abstinence- The act or practice of refraining from having sex. It is the only way to 100% avoid STD’s or pregnancy.
Birth Control Pill-Most birth control pills are "combination pills" containing a combination of the hormones estrogen and progesterone to prevent ovulation (the release of an egg during the monthly cycle). A woman cannot get pregnant if she doesn't ovulate because there is no egg to be fertilized. The Pill also works by thickening the mucus around the cervix, which makes it difficult for sperm to enter the uterus and reach any eggs that may have been released. The hormones in the Pill can also sometimes affect the lining of the uterus, making it difficult for an egg to attach to the wall of the uterus.
Condom-A latex sheath that is placed over the erect penis to protect against pregnancy and sexually transmitted diseases. They are 98.9% effective when used correctly.
Depo Provera-a long‑acting progestin (hormone) form of birth control. It is injected into the muscle every 11 weeks. It is effective 24 hours after your first injection if given in the first 5 days of a normal menstrual period. It inhibits the secretion of hormones that stimulate the ovaries. This prevents ovulation. It also thickens your cervical mucus to prevent the entrance of sperm into the uterus.With continuous use, there is less than a 1% chance of experiencing an accidental pregnancy.
Female Condom-The female condom is a polyurethane sheath with two rings, one which fits behind the pubic bone, like the diaphragm, and another which sits outside the vagina and covers the labia. It acts as a physical barrier to sperm and helps to prevent against STDs.
Gonorrhea-Gonorrhea is a curable sexually transmitted infection (STI) caused by bacteria called Neisseria gonorrhoeae. These bacteria can infect the genital tract, mouth, and rectum of both men and women.
Hpv- There are over 100 HPV types. About 30 of these types are sexually transmitted and cause genital HPV. Genital HPV is spread through skin‑to‑skin contact, not through an exchange of bodily fluid. Genital HPV cannot be entirely prevented by condom use. This virus is often asymptomatic ‑‑ people usually don't know they have it. About 5.5 million new genital HPV cases occur each year ‑‑ this is about 1/3 of all new STD infections. About 20 million people ‑‑ men and women ‑‑ are thought to have an active HPV infection at any given time. Nearly three out of four Americans between the ages of 15 and 49 have been infected with genital HPV in their lifetime. HPV can be contracted from one partner, remain dormant, and then later be unknowingly transmitted to another sexual partner, including a spouse. Though usually harmless, some types cause cervical cancer if not detected in time.
Intra-uterine device- An Intrauterine Device (IUD) is a small object that is inserted through the cervix and placed in the uterus to prevent pregnancy. A small string hangs down from the IUD into the upper part of the vagina. The IUD is not noticeable during intercourse. IUDs can last 1‑10 years. They affect the movements of eggs and sperm to prevent fertilization. They also change the lining of the uterus and prevent implantation. IUDs are 99.2‑99.9% effective as birth control. They do not protect against sexually transmitted infections, including HIV/AIDS, and they can cause infertility.
Just in case!- Always keep a condom, dental dam, or other birth control on hand so you will always be prepared just in case you need it.
Kissing- Herpes, Hepatitis B, and genital warts can be transmitted by kissing.
Lube- Approximately 2 ‑ 5 percent of condoms tear during use. The majority of these failures are caused by human error, which can include not using enough lube.
Masturbation- Masturbation is erotic self pleasure. Since masturbation does not require a partner or anything other than your own body, it is always available as a way to explore and have orgasms.
Nuva Ring- is a flexible, contraceptive ring inserted into the vagina each month. It contains two types of hormones, estrogen and progestin (just like the pill), that prevent your ovaries from producing mature eggs. NuvaRing provides benefits similar to oral contraceptives, but without the daily pill‑taking routine.
Oral Sex- Oral sex is defined as the act of sexual intimacy from mouth to penis (fellatio), mouth to vagina (cunnilingus) or mouth to anus.the risk still exists. You can get a bacterial infection of chlamydia, syphilis or gonorrhea in your mouth and/or throat, and in some rarer occasions, can develop genital warts in the mouth. Herpes is commonly passed between genitals and the mouth, and HIV can be passed through cuts in the mouth or small abrasions.
Protection- Different types of protection against STD’s include:The Male Condom , Oral Contraceptives, Intrauterine Device, The Female Condom, Depo‑Provera, Diaphragm, Contraceptive Sponge, The Patch (Ortho Evra), NuvaRing, Tubal Ligation or Vasectomy, Finger cots, latex gloves, or Emergency Contraception.
Question- It is a good idea to always question your partner about his/her sexual history and motives, and also to make sure you can trust and believe them before engaging in sex.
Rape- Rape is the act of forced penetration of any bodily orifice (vaginally, anally, or orally) or forced cunillingous, involving violation of the survivor's body and psychological person. The assault is accomplished by the use of force, the threat of force, or without force when the survivor is unable to physically or mentally give her or his consent (such as when intoxicated). It is the destruction of a feeling of control over one's body, life, and the course of events. Rape is an experience of violation, degradation, and humiliation.
Syphilis- Syphilis is a sexually transmitted disease (STD) caused by the bacterium Treponema pallidum. It has often been called “the great imitator” because so many of the signs and symptoms are indistinguishable from those of other diseases. Syphilis is passed from person to person through direct contact with a syphilis sore. Sores occur mainly on the external genitals, vagina, anus, or in the rectum. Sores also can occur on the lips and in the mouth. Transmission of the organism occurs during vaginal, anal, or oral sex.
Trichomoniasis- Trichomoniasis is a common sexually transmitted disease (STD) that affects both women and men, although symptoms are more common in women. Trichomoniasis is the most common curable STD in young, sexually active women. An estimated 7.4 million new cases occur each year in women and men. Trichomoniasis is caused by the single‑celled protozoan parasite, Trichomonas vaginalis. The vagina is the most common site of infection in women, and the urethra (urine canal) is the most common site of infection in men. The parasite is sexually transmitted through penis‑to‑vagina intercourse or vulva‑to‑vulva (the genital area outside the vagina) contact with an infected partner.
Urinary tract Infection- Can be caused by having sexual intercourse. Germs in the vagina can be pushed into the urethra.
Venereal Disease- Sexually‑transmissible infections (STIs) that have a significant probability of transmission between humans by means of sexual contact–vaginal intercourse, oral sex, and/or anal sex.
Withdrawl- Withdrawal is when a man takes his penis out of a woman’s vagina (or “pulls out”) before he ejaculates, or has an orgasm. This stops the sperm from going to the egg. “Pulling out” can be hard for a man to do and it takes a lot of self‑control. When you use withdrawal, you can also be at risk getting pregnant BEFORE the man pulls out. When a man’s penis first becomes erect, there can be fluid called pre‑ejaculate fluid on the tip of the penis that has sperm in it. This sperm can get a woman pregnant. Withdrawal also does not protect you from STDs or HIV.
No X-cuses! Don’t accept any excuses from your partner for why they won’t use protection.
“Yes.”- An individual must give consent to sex. If an individual is intoxicated or under the influence of other drugs, they cannot give consent.
“Zzzzzzz....”- what follows safe sex with a consenting partner.
Enjoy!! :)