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Monday, January 24, 2011 at 2:59:00 PM EST

I just read this fascinating article  from Ms. Magazine comparing Nina Sayers (Natalie Portman) from Black Swan with the character of Precious Jones (Gabourey Sidibe) from Precious. It's about the way the two movies deal with very similar issues--mother/daughter sexual abuse--in very different ways, and what this says about how we view and stereotype black vs. white women. Precious, poor and overweight, at one point looks in the mirror and imagines seeing a thin, pretty white girl looking back at her. Nina is that thin, pretty, middle-class white girl--but is trapped by similar demons. One of the most disturbing things about the reaction to both movies, in my opinion, is the lack of discussion or even acknowledgement of the mother/daughter sex abuse--which is so central to both stories.



The author says it all better than me so I'll let her speak for herself (emphasis is mine):

When Precious opened last year to critical acclaim and big box office, the main debates surrounding the film concerned the demonization of Precious’s mother Mary (played by Oscar-winning Mo’Nique). Black audiences were quick to point out that Mary was a stereotypical distortion of black motherhood, while others chose to view the story through a sociological lens. We could point to the family’s impoverished conditions as the cause for its dysfunction, as well as to the sexist treatment both Precious and Mary received from the absentee father, who took off from the household after twice impregnating Precious and giving her HIV, thus sparking Mary’s envy and resentment toward her own daughter. This is the pathological black family writ large.
vs. Black Swan:
But poverty is just part of the problem, as we witness a similar dysfunctional family in Black Swan, in which Nina and her mother Erica (played by Barbara Hershey) live in a relatively spacious and middle-class apartment in New York City. In this story, there is no mention of the absentee father, which might suggest that single-mother-headed households are viewed as deviant across racial and class lines.  However, black dysfunction is often reduced to sociology, while white dysfunction is reduced to psychology.  It’s not surprising that most conversations about Black Swan focus on how “crazy” and “psychotic” Nina became towards the movie’s end, while few have named the source for her mental decline. In other words, few recognize Nina as a victim of incest, the way we immediately recognize Precious’s victimization.


That really rings true to me. After watching Black Swan, I almost felt like Nina's sexual abuse was all in my head--and I don't think that's accidental. It's meant to be vague and imprecise. Part of that is artistic, but I think it's worth considering that it's almost safer, or more "appropriate," for people to think of *white* mother-daughter incest in more vague, mysterious terms. Would it be different for father-daughter incest? Somehow I think so. Back to the article:

Granted, it’s rather difficult to not talk about Mary as a sexual predator when director Lee Daniels left little to the imagination (depicting Mary in bed pleasuring herself before calling for Precious to “come take care of Mama”), while Aronofsky overwhelmed Black Swan with surrealism, Swan Lake allegories and ambiguous shots. As a result, the abuse that Nina suffers can only be hinted at (such as depicting Erica calling out to her daughter, “Sweetie, are you ready for me?,” right after we witness Nina exploring ways to keep her mother out of her room).  Even here, the racial differences in the heroines are highlighted. Precious is expected to serve as the sexual aggressor while Nina is expected to be passive as she awaits her mother in bed.

Moreover, there is a certain ease in blatantly depicting a black mother as monstrous and depraved, while the pathology of the white mother, whose interaction with her daughter is one of suffocating love rather than outright hatred, can only be suggestive and viewed as “creepy” (as in, she is definitely “not the norm,” even if Aronofsky invokes ethnic stereotypes of “pushy Jewish mothers”).

Going more into the themes of avoidan in Black Swan...

Even more telling in the conversations we are having about Black Swan is the fetishistic treatment of white women’s bodies, which distracts us from some of the deeper themes explored. For instance, the infamous lesbian sex scene, which had audiences buzzing even before the movie debuted, is a cover for the sex abuse Nina experiences. It’s important to note that, after this scene (which is later revealed to be an Ecstasy-induced fantasy), Nina’s attitude towards her mother changes from fear and resentment to outright disgust,  leaving us to question if she had been having sex not with Lily (played by Mila Kunis)–another dancer whom she views as a rival–but with her own mother. It is this disgust that leads to her mental deterioration, her rage (which I interpret as a “healthy” response to abuse) and her eventual embrace of the passionate and sensuous Black Swan role that she must master in her debut performance as the Swan Queen. 

Because Nina’s abuse remains an unspoken and haunting presence in the film, she cannot find healing. And this is where the narratives in Precious and Black Swan diverge.  Even as they tell similar stories of how some daughters suffer unspeakable abuse at the hands of their mothers, we tend to romanticize the story of the black survivor and the white victim. If Precious can find salvation and liberation in an alternative school, where she learns to write and encounters self-empowered women such as her teacher and other students like herself, Nina’s education leads to the exact opposite: She can only find self-destruction in art, similarly abusive authority figures (such as her ballet instructor) and female rivalry versus feminist support and friendship. Lily comes closest to being a friend, except Nina’s paranoid fantasies, which confuse Lily with her mother, turn her into a threat.

Nina cannot find healing because the issue is never addressed. And this is probably where the movie comes closest to the truth. No one talks about these issues, even when they're literally at the center of two hugely popular movies. And from what I know that seems to be consistent in real life, whether you're black or white or neither or both.

Read the whole article here.

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Comments
i would have never made this connection but definitely felt myself nodding yes to a lot of the comments you and the author to the article you linked to made. like this line: "I think it's worth considering that it's almost safer, or more "appropriate," for people to think of *white* mother-daughter incest in more vague, mysterious terms." thanks for sharing!
# Posted By altafmysistahs | 1/24/11 11:42 PM | Reply
Wow... I had no idea.

I love both movies but didn't realize the connection of abuse. (Which is probably why I love both of them equally.) I think the breakdown is definitely on target and does fit stereotypes. It's interesting how we don't like to look problems dead-on. This abuse topic definitely needs to be talked about more...

Thanks for this!
# Posted By  Jerusalem_YWOC | 1/26/11 11:26 AM | Reply
I know, I never would have made this connection either! Such an interesting/eye-opening take...
# Posted By  kathleenmysistahs | 1/27/11 03:08 PM | Reply
I got the opportunity to watch black swan movie last friday..Its reallya good movie. all the actors did a mavelloys job
My sig: watch Hop online

# Posted By macs | 3/26/11 08:41 AM | Reply
As an African American female survivor of sexual, emotional, physical and spirtual abuse at the hands of an African American mother, I found the "surrealism" in "Black Swan" a more realistic depiction of the aftermath of overt sexual abuse and how it manifest on the covert level as a the child progresses into adulthood. My mother stopped physically touching me at age 10 but the covert stuff went on until I was in mid-thirties and finally got a restraining order against my mother. Like Nina when I would visit I would have to block the bathroom door with the hamper when I took a shower.  I would be asked instrusive questions about my sexual life (how many times I orgasmed, if I'd been with more than one man, what kind of fantsied I had).  I'd be critized by my mother and other family members for wanting to use the bathroom with the door closed. I engaged in self-mutilation by picking at my face. Self-injury is very common among sexual abuse survivors. i have always been extremely hypervigiliant. 

I get what the writer is saying about the assumed "pathology" Mary.  But in many ways Nina's character was more true to the actions of actual survivors of mother daughter sexual abuse who haven't had any type of recovery no matter the color. And her mother's behavior was very typical of these type of mothers with their adult children.  "Precious" for me represented what I experienced as a kid.  "Black Swan" represented what happened to me from my teen years through my adulthood.

I'm a memeber of a mother daugther sexual abuse message board and when "Black Swan" came out it was extremely triggering to most of us who've been through this horror. Not so much with "Precious."  I think because the abuse in that film was so in your face.  Sexual abuse operates on so many levels.

Thank goodness, science has finally caught up and there have many, many reputable studies showing how early trauma and abuse actually reshapes the brain creating a lot of the symptoms that are PTSD.  So aint' a matter of just getting over it but with therapy, groups (there is a 12 step group for survivors called Survivors of Incest Anonymous) and self nuturing one can begin to get through.

Thanks.

Toni
# Posted By Zingua | 8/26/11 04:13 PM | Reply