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Monday, March 28, 2011 at 7:42:00 PM EDT

i came across this post a guy did last night on another blog where he stated,

now i’m not new to this phenomenon, but can i ask WTF is up with this #teamlightskinned #teamdarkskinned? don’t blacks deal with enough prejudice and racism in the world? now you’re gonna make a sub-category of racism in our own culture?!

i couldn't agree more with him. i've recently logged on a little more to twitter and i see it a lot. #teamlightskinned, #teamdarkskinned. and its not even about loving your skin tone its about going against one another which in my mind, makes no sense. and i really see this with the females which is actually no surprise at all but i really hate that its come to this. one does not have to be better than the other..Spike Lee directed a film School Daze in '88 which was more about people in a fraternity and sorority going back and forth with each other, but when it came to the two sorority’s portrayed, at one point they went IN on opposing sorority about their skin color and hair. which sounds a lot like today and we're 23 years later. i just would really like to see women of color #teamunited or just #teamblackgirlsrock as in all shades.

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Thursday, February 10, 2011 at 9:01:00 PM EST

Maybe a week or two ago Rihanna released her video for her song titled S&M. if you don’t know, S&M refers to Sadism and Masochism: Sadism- pleasure inflicting pain on other during sexual acts; Masochism- pleasure receiving pain during sexual acts.
Now the video has been banned, last time I heard in 11 countries and after I watched it online right after it had been released I figured it would be. But in all honesty seeing a woman of color do a video like this and make a song like this in my opinion is good. Talking about sex in this way in the black community is kind of taboo, I mean “chains and whips excite me,” that’s something not too many women will tell to their closest girlfriends in conversation about sex. But Rihanna as well as Keri Hilson have taken it upon themselves to make songs and racy videos that basically say, you know what this is what I like, how I like it and I just need you to comply. And I think for women of color that’s good. I think we should be able to express exactly what we want without feeling some way about it. If chains and whips excite you then so be it.



Rihanna's Video:
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=KdS6HFQ_LUc

Keri Hilsons:
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=SUAl1H9_-G0

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Thursday, February 3, 2011 at 3:23:00 PM EST
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So, it is Black History Month and while we celebrate the achievements and great things that have happened for black people let’s not overlook some things that are holding us back. The month of February is a great time of remembrance and celebration. Even though we should be proud 24/7, 365 of who we are and where we come from, it is also a time of learning. As a people, we need to learn to better protect ourselves when it comes to our reproductive health. Embrace and enjoy the celebration of black during the month of February but also know that HIV is greatly affecting our community and if we continue to ignore it we will no longer be able to enjoy the month of Black History or any month. Monday, February 7th is National Black HIV/AIDS Awareness and Information day. Falls right into Black History Month really nicely, doesn’t it?

Seriously, go out on Monday the 7th, get the information and get tested. I’ll even help with the information part by providing these links:

http://www.blackaidsday.org

http://www.blackaidsday.org/blacks_hiv.html

Please do click them and check out the site. And Monday morning find a site to get tested at.

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Wednesday, December 1, 2010 at 3:00:00 PM EST
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Hello everyone!! I was looking around different blog sites and some are taking the time to acknowledge that today is in fact World AIDS Day. The site I look at most often though, had a nice post that came from HIV positive, international activist, Hydeia Broadbent...

Just like Hip Hop runs through the blood of our inner cities, so does HIV. Like Hip Hop, the fight against AIDS has been watered down. We are complacent with the medical advancements made just as Hip Hop is complacent with its commercial success.

Hip Hop’s lyrical content seems to be only about sex, popping bottles, and clothes. It has forgotten how to make people think. Today’s Hip Hop reflects a void of understanding within our community.

When it comes to AIDS in the African American community we have chosen to turn a blind eye and not talk about it. It makes us comfortable to ignore the subject. The fact is our community is being hit the hardest. How can we remain silent any longer?

Read more: What Does HIV Mean To Hip Hop? | Necole Bitchie.com 

I don't want to post the whole article here, click the link and you can read the rest there. But she has already made good points. PLEASE READ THE REST!

Also visit her site: http://www.hydeiabroadbent.com/
 

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Monday, November 1, 2010 at 9:06:00 PM EDT

How do we as blacks or minorities overcome this issue that is HIV? Is it possible? Being in school and taking an Epidemiology class I’ve learned that you have to look at the problems on the macro and micro level. I think this video does a good job of that, the big problem is HIV but what people aren’t seeing is what it takes for people to get to the point of not protecting themselves. I don’t want to say too much, I think the video is able to stand alone.

Part 1:



Part 2:


Maybe this video is really moving to me because I focus a lot on HIV/AIDS prevention. Or maybe it’s just because this is a really good video. Some really good points were made: men who have sex with men statistics, the black church, heterosexual men “fighting for space,” “no black man a-phobia,” HIV being a condition and self-love. The video leaves you with self-love as a solution so what can we as a people do, to get you to love yourselves?

Let me just say...I know what the reality is among young people as far HIV being a "condition" but that upset me. Why would anyone elect to live on medication for the rest of their lives whether its 1 pill or 50?! That's basically saying you're not taking it seriously when it's not something to be played with. Why do that to yourself when it doesn't have to be that way? Sorry, just needed to get that out.

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Sunday, October 31, 2010 at 12:37:00 AM EDT

It's Halloween so I’m sure a lot of young girls/women will be dressing up as their beloved Nicki Minaj. I think this piece I came across showed up at the right time. I’ve been browsing a couple blog sites and kept coming across this one particular piece that has a lot of people talking. A young woman by the name of Jasmine Mans, did an original spoken word piece entitled “Nicki Minaj” at an event at the University of Wisconsin- Madison. Miss Jasmine Mans has undeniable talent but from some of the comments I’ve been seeing, I feel like her message is going completely over some people’s heads and bringing all of Ms Minaj’s little Barbies bad sides out.

I enjoy spoken word but I even had to listen more than once to fully get what this young lady was saying. I personally don’t think this young woman was completely trying to “go in” or diss Nicki Minaj, but rather shed a little light on what kind of effect the industry or money in general has on people. I feel like she’s addressing the change Nicki Minaj went through from when she was trying to get her foot in the door, to now. I also don’t feel like what was said, applies to just Nicki Minaj, it could go hand in hand for female rappers like Lil Kim, Foxy Brown or Trina (just saying because these are the three names that are also being associated with Nicki Minaj’s “sex selling image”), it’s just that Nicki Minaj is the only one relevant and appealing right now.

And while I will say she is relevant and doing the most, is she really the female emcee young women should look up to? Because we don’t know Nicki Minaj the person; all we know is this character she’s portraying, which is a Barbie that at one point in time didn’t cater to little girls of color. There was a time when white Barbie’s would just be dipped in black paint and when that paint chipped all that was left was again, a white Barbie that doesn’t even represent Nicki Minaj’s (fake or real) curvaceous figure. There’s nothing wrong with being sexy but is Nicki really that different from the video vixens that get such negative attention? Is Nicki Minaj really doing what she’s doing for women or is she hindering us even more? [Kanye Shrug] thoughts anyone?


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Thursday, January 21, 2010 at 6:09:00 PM EST

..is February 7th!

I went and talked to Cecilio, who works for ALFA about the testing process and got some great information about it. When I got tested (at a location other than ALFA, last year) they didn't get into any of the things ALFA got into. So keep in mind not all testing processes are the same but all in all, get tested.

Here's the video...
And he talks about the rapid test.



I also looked around on the website for National Black HIV/AIDS Awareness Day.
http://www.blackaidsday.org/. It's a nice site so please do take a look around it.
 

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Monday, December 28, 2009 at 1:05:00 PM EST



thoughts anyone?

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Tuesday, December 1, 2009 at 7:05:00 PM EST

Just read Cree's post and just viewed the video below, on BET's 106 & Park Top Ten Countdown. Find this very fitting and again I ask...what's going on?




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Tuesday, December 1, 2009 at 11:46:00 AM EST

This entry is a part of our World AIDS Day Blogathon.  During this week we share our experiences, stories, and ideas about how HIV affects young people around the world. Join the blogathon .

Today is World AIDS Day..let’s all get tested!
Because its World AIDS Day I thought I’d share some facts regarding the African American community..keep in mind ladies..African American and Latino women are disproportionately impacted
-          African Americans make up about 12-13% of the population but account for most cases of AIDS
-          In 2007, 50% of all new HIV diagnoses and 42% of new AIDS diagnoses were in black people (these numbers have remained relatively stable in the last couple of years)
-          AIDS diagnoses in 2007 for African Americans..(very large number) 17,507
-          In 2005, 84% of all new HIV infections were among blacks and Latinos ages 13- to 19-year-olds and 76% of HIV infections among 20- to 24-year-olds in the United States even though, together, they represent only about 32% of people these ages.
Not knowing your status and you’re having unprotected sex, affects not only you, but also your partner…or partners, whichever one you choose to get down with. Do yourself, the ones you love, the ones your getting down with, whatever…do them all a favor and have them go also. Go where you ask? To get tested!! HIV/AIDS is not a game, nothing to play with and its killing our community. Need a place to get tested? Visit this website to find a place near you: www.hivtest.org
 

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