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Blog - Amplify your voice

Monday, February 15, 2010 at 1:20:00 PM EST

Recently, while I was sitting in my third period block, the announcements came on as usual. The speaker addressed new dress code. It was the usual, any t-shirts or hats stating racists remarks, drug references, etc. Yet in the middle of him saying all these, was the word 'gay'. I immediately caught on. They couldn't possibly be banning gay clothing, I thought. So, at lunch, I promptly went down to the office to ask about this. I asked what they meant when addressing 'gay' in the dress code. The office secretary and school counselor then told me no student could wear 'gay' clothing. I asked what they meant by this. They then carried on that no student was allowed to wear ANYTHING that would have anything to do with gay pride, from a small rainbow flag on a tee-shirt to an upside-down triangle. I was furious, saying you cannot classify gay pride with drugs and racism. They told me it was basically the same category. Of course in the next week I continuously talked to the principal about it, saying that is homophobic and an infringement to our rights in a public school, that our right to freedom of speech isn't just dropped once we enter these doors, and that I can't believe the school would make such a homophobic decision. He denied it and said that 'there was nothing he could do' and had 'no idea it was ever decided'. Bullshit, right? I thought of getting help from the ACLU, and even from gay friend around the country saying they could travel down to the school, but I am deciding to just let it go. Yet, it still bothers me. Should I have done something? Do you think it was right as a public school to deny us our rights like this? Comment what you think please. :}

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Contact the ACLU. There is a parallel case from Florida from a couple of years back...they actually can't do that kind of censorship.
# Posted By Autumn_Sandeen | 2/15/10 05:08 PM | Report | Reply
that is so stupid! you DEFINANTLY should NOT just let it go. that is not right. fight against it in any way you can. good luck!
# Posted By sweet_confused_one | 2/15/10 09:29 PM | Report | Reply
 This is completely moronic!! FIGHT THE SCHOOL, they cannot censorgay pride!!!!!!! its wrong!
# Posted By Zetcha | 2/15/10 11:27 PM | Report | Reply
Hey, hellomaddie.  This is absolutely ridiculous. If you'd like help from Advocates for Youth and the Amplify community, shoot me an email at sarah@advocatesforyouth.org. 


# Posted By AFY_Sarah | 2/16/10 12:37 AM | Report | Reply
Do not let this go. Please keep fighting this homophobic policy. What the school is doing is wrong, and they need someone to tell them that, even if you have to tell them over and over until they finally get it. You know they're wrong, so do what you know is right.
# Posted By Mahayana | 2/16/10 12:57 AM | Report | Reply
I'd definitely protest.
That's ridiculous; anti-gay school policies pepetuate poor self-esteem and even internal homo-negativity. I did a research paper about homosexuality and religion, and found out just how horrible the internal effects (or 'internal homo-negativity) can become.
Luckily for me, we have a guidance counseler who is obviously gay, and would never let such policies to be installed.
But as a student, I can tell you this truth: If I were in your shoes, I'd absolutely do something about this injustice.
# Posted By  chloebeth13 | 2/17/10 10:59 AM | Report | Reply