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Saturday, February 27, 2010 at 8:43:00 PM EST

I've heard the concerns on the whole teens having sex before their ready talk but it didn't really affect me. I plan to stay abstinent as long as i can. BAM! Turns out, my older sister doesn't have the same ideas as I do on that topic. Which is fine with me and no big deal. THat is, if you don't live as an active LDS or rather, mormon.  And of course, with her luck she was found out within a few weeks. All the sudden there's chilling threats, meetings with higher authorities being scheduled, bawling, and so much more fun stuff. The best part is? He's the bishop's son. That's the equivalent of dating and screwing the pastor's  son who was SUPPOSED  to be celibate.  and now he's cracked under pressure and broken up with her, leaving her broken, and depressed so bad i'm afraid she's gonna commit suicide.Oh you've gotta love this culture. They didn't use protection. Why? Shame, insecurity, unpreparedness the list goes on and on. Just to show how stressful the possible pregnancy situation is, my mother had three kids in three years. Very scary in this case.  Any advice?

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Comments
You're right to worry about your sister. Unprotected sex is never a good idea, unless you're trying to get pregnant, which is not what I think your sister wants. It's unfortunate that the reason (or a reason) she and her boyfriend aren't using protection is because they believe there's a stigma attached to it. My advice is to talk to her about condoms. Let her know that if they choose to have sex, using a condom is the responsible, respectful thing to do. Using condoms is a lot easier than being pregnant and having/raising a child. Maybe if you talk to her and share your concerns, she will act in a safer, healthier way.
# Posted By Mahayana | 2/28/10 02:04 AM | Report | Reply
 Unfortunately, my parents found out so the chances of her having sex ever again before she's married are pretty much nil. However, I'll still talk about protection too her in a couple months, once she's over the whole sining and repentance  and over the breakup.Thanks for the advice though.
# Posted By awkwardpoet94 | 2/28/10 05:55 PM | Report | Reply