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Just like the earth, in life we all go through seasons. We take displeasure in seeing the sun's kisses slowly dissipate for the frigid chill and shadows of winter, but just keep in mind, winter is essential to keep the balance in nature.
When I said this to a friend of mine (even though she was being cute :) she told me, "It's always summer in Africa". Truth be told, it's not. To the outside looking in, it may appear to always be summer, but yes, even Africa has her cyclic changes as well. It may not bring arctic blast of snow but it does bring additional rainfall and/or colder nights. Again, the change is a necessity.
Always remember just because someone may look like everything’s excellent ("It's summer all the time in Africa"), they also have periods of hardship and trials. It may not be the same thing that ails us, but nevertheless, it’s something that tries the spirit and is important for their growth.
So in conclusion, there's a time and space for all things. A time to laugh, a time to cry, contented times, and distressing ones. But in your hardships stop and listen to the message the universe is conveying. There's always a lesson to be learned - one which will build character and prepare us for what's to come. Accept those times as a necessity.
As we take an inventory of our lives, I’m sure we’ll discover our fair share of winters. Trust me; I could’ve built an igloo from all of mine, LOL. But I now know it was essential in order for me to receive and accept my summers. For how else would I appreciate the bud's hope springing fourth, the Lilies of the Valley in bloom, and sun kisses just for me.
Peace,
E
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