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L. Michael Gipson is a Washington, DC based critically acclaimed cultural critic, community health planner, and an award-winning youth advocate. His socio-political essays have been published in two recent anthologies, including "Emerging Agendas: The Best of Poverty and Race 2001-2005." As a cultural critic and music journalist, his work has appeared in Clik, Pulse, Arise, Pride, Swerv, Urban Dialect, Port of Harlem and Creative Loafing ATL. He is editor and columnist at SoulTracks and internationally heard weekly as “Cornfed” on The Dave Brown Radio Show

Monday, February 1, 2010 at 9:43:00 AM EST
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By L. Michael Gipson

So, I’m surfing through my friend’s posts on Facebook and come across a self-penned article posted by one of my heterosexual Black brothers, an uber-secure, gay-friendly and affirming heterosexual in the music biz. The kind of straight whose been hit on by gays, but still knows who he is and what he’s about, so he keeps it cute and respectful about the flattering attention, even as he appropriately declines gay advances. He’s the kind who sees me as his brother and not a tool for proving or measuring his masculinity.

So, I click the link excited, because literate, artsy, and knowledgeable about all things underground his blog is an artist’s sanctuary. In the piece, after complimenting an up and coming male artist, he feels compelled to write “no homo.” Astonished, I did something I rarely do: called him out on it publicly on FB. Apologetic, he said it was an inside joke between him and the artist. Owning his acquiescence to trend, however innocent, he recognized that his remark didn’t contribute to the healthy de-stigmatizing vibe we need between gays and straights, but moreover between straights and straights, he corrected the article and we were quickly made whole. But it got me to thinking: if even our allies feel encouraged to state their sexual proclivities after any same sex expression of affection, compliment, or heaven forbid, platonic same sex love, then what hope do the rest of them or us have?

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Thursday, December 17, 2009 at 7:11:00 AM EST
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This year may go down in history as the banner year for Black women’s stories in mainstream commercial film. Last weekend the first hand-painted Disney film in decades starred the company’s first Black princess (and possibly the most Blacks behind-the-scenes employees in Disney’s 87-year history). This was on the heels of what was deemed one of the first Black Oscar contenders in a generation for Best Director, Best Film, and possibly Best Supporting Actress in Precious: Based on the Book “Push” By Sapphire. In our collective rush to deservedly celebrate hard-working black princesses being romanced by shiftless high yella Negroes princes, and illiterate molestation victims who will miraculously survive both HIV and two inbred children in pre-HAART, Bush I America, there’s a more earth-bound story I hope we won’t forget this awards season. 

Early in 2009 a small film, American Violet (now available on DVD), was released to high critical acclaim.  Directed by Tim Disney, written and produced by Bill Haney, and starring Alfre Woodard and rapper Xzibit, the film belonged to its lead, an astonishingly good Nicole Behaire as Dee Roberts. Based on the true-life heroics of Regina Kelly, Roberts is a 24-year old Black mother of four in Harmon County, Texas (real-life Hearne, TX in Robertson County) who despite a valiant grind of working-class servitude can only rise to survivalist poverty. Kelly as played by Behaire made some dooming life choices, poorly selected men based on her environments’ limited offerings, and has a slight anger management problem. After a series of systemically racist events involving illegal drug sweeps of innocent citizens on the word of a single, compromised informant, Roberts is asked to be the lead plaintiff in a civil rights case against a corrupt DA in an eerily oppressive town where Jim Crow-era racial hierarchy is still thrives. Even after she no longer has to fight to save herself, Roberts chooses to stay and fight her people and model something different for her daughters, eventually changing the laws for thousands of poor people, not just in her county, but across the state of Texas.

American Violet doesn’t depict Roberts as anyone’s angel. She’s an ordinary citizen facing extraordinary circumstances. Her every fault and frailty is thrown in her face with enough snide judgment to crush a lesser mortal. The welfare of her children dangled before her with little regard for their lives, her livelihood stripped from her, and still she stood and fought with little more to gain than dignity for herself and her people. Despite the re-election of the Bull Conner D.A. she defeated, the true plaintiff of Regina Kelly vs. John Paschall stayed in Hearn, Texas until this year, in a town whose power structure hated her guts. If I had a daughter, I’d rather she view Kelly’s chutzpah as something worth emulating rather than the fictional ambitions of a singing frog. The example of a flawed Black woman exposing systemic, institutional racism despite her own socially demeaned stature should at least be as celebrated as the personal holocaust survivor of Grand Guignol parents.

Don’t get me wrong. I enjoyed both Precious and The Princess and The Frog. Both films offer vitally important Black women’s stories and images, but they are end spectrum hyperbolic works of art. America Violet is a reality-based road map for walking with dignity for the living. Appropriately, American Violet closes not with some faux-celebratory scene of Regina Kelly’s David vs. Goliath triumph against an ever-present corrupt system; it knows Kelly’s win is but a ripple in a social justice ocean. Instead, it closes with a sobering, challenging statistic for us all to determine whether to act on with the same justifiable outrage and fight of a young mother in Texas: 90% of all U.S. convictions are made through plea bargain.




Friday, November 20, 2009 at 9:39:00 AM EST
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The internet is abuzz with shade and conjecture about Rihanna’s latest single, “Russian Roulette,” and what it all means. Written by Ne-Yo, the song has been argued as a metaphor for Rihanna’s abusive relationship with Chris Brown. This argument seems a wee bit of a stretch (are the rounds to represent how many times she went back until she got “shot?”). However, many people, including singer/songwriter Eric “Erro” Roberson, have taken the song for something more sinister, as a playbook for youth suicide.

I can understand hidden or double meanings, but a step-by-step booklet on what to do when you find poppa's handgun in the closet is dumb,” Roberson twittered.  

The song is not the only thing about “Russian Roulette” that’s making noise. Several fans commented on Roberson’s page that they found the video offensive as well. The video is obscure in ways that the very direct song is not. On its face, the song presents an introspective, but detailed narrative about a woman playing Russian roulette for the first time with a man whose played it often and survived.

The video on the other hand is artsy, full of Saw imagery, some of which is ripped off from old Maxwell and Janet videos, but I digress. Anthony Mandler, the video’s director, told MTV News that the goal of the video is to be intentionally “not obvious” given the seemingly unending media drama about Rihanna and Brown’s fateful night of intimate partner violence.

Still, the suits ensured that the doomed couple’s media moneymaking drama somehow got tied in, even if the lyric doesn’t fit the situation. So Mandler positions Rihanna as imprisoned, drowning, and, of course, shot. That all of it presented as out of body for Rihanna and self-inflected, if coerced by the man in the video, should provide further fodder for armchair psychologist of the Rihanna situation. 

But is the song about suicide? Is she playing footloose and fancy free with a song that glorifies suicide? And as an artist doesn’t she have the right to cover a broad array of subjects, including the controversial?

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Friday, October 30, 2009 at 8:07:00 AM EST
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“It’s the Pygmalion,” I say to myself, “an updated Pygmalion with a dash of Cyrano de Bergerac.” That’s all I’m thinking the whole time I’m watching the hyper-sexist The Ugly Truth starring Katherine Heigl and Gerard Butler (newly released on DVD). In playwright George Bernard Shaw’s version of Pygmalion, better known as My Fair Lady among theater buffs, a strong-willed, Cockney gutter snipe is transformed into a proper (read: demure and “precious”) English lady. In the end, through a montage-worthy series of transformative lessons, is determined to be worthy of love by an arrogant, obnoxious middle-age bachelor. How’s Frazier for a grand prize? For all her work to become acceptable for marriage and society, our hard-working lady wins a Viagra-eligible curmudgeon who is verbally abusive and disrespectful at every turn. But, hey, at least he’s paid and can keep his upgrade out of the gutter, right?

The literal closing message of the Pygmalion and its offspring, The Ugly Truth, is that a strong, independent, working woman should be grateful an oaf could love her—as worthless as she is with all her neuroses—but only after being smoothed out by that jerk’s sanding hands. This has been the message women have fallen in love with since the Pygmalion myth was first created centuries ago by the story’s primary beneficiaries, men.

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Thursday, October 15, 2009 at 4:18:00 PM EDT
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I’m living for a symbol/The way I live my life/Symbol/the way I choose my wife/Symbol/the way I raise my kids/Symbol/to the way I live.
As a cultural critic, I spend a lot of time mining issues of race, class, gender and sexuality in the musical arts. My bread and butter is inking challenges to artists to go deeper than commercially appealing but soulfully destructive tales of exploitation and objectification of people, male and female, that has become our international booty shaking standard. Asking artists and listeners alike to consider how they contribute to pervasive, impressionable messages confusing sex for love, beauty for depth, finance for romance and cars for manhood. Asking us to reflect how our messages to each other, and even more devastatingly, to ourselves feed decisions that fail to fulfill us, fail to uplift us, fail to make us whole. So, it’s exciting to share a song that lifts a mirror to us, asking us is this really how we want to live, to be?

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Friday, September 18, 2009 at 9:57:00 AM EDT
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There is a HBO show set in a redneck version of the gothic South peopled with vampires, telepaths, maenads, shape-shifters, and another set of rare mythical creatures in scripted television: a bevy of attractive Black characters with significant storylines. The show is True Bloodloosely based on novels by Charlaine Harris, where the sizable Black cast gives authenticity to the show’s Bayou settingIn some key ways, producer/creator Alan Ball (Six Feet Underhas modeled how to credibly give attractive Black actors screen time and how to buck Northern stereotypes about Southern segregation by having Black people interact with white people as equals (and more disturbingly in situations with supernatural whites, as subordinates). In other ways, Ball consistently also models disturbing ways to mine antebellum histories, American iconography, and unspoken racial beliefs for visceral shock and emotional disturbance, and making you love it.
 
To date, the dynamic show has offered us a drunkard mother; aunemployable angry daughter; a sexually enticing drifter; and a funny gender-bending/gay/ruffneck/drug dealer with a heart of gold, all as major characters. In addition to the Black extras regularly sprinkling various group scenes, at least two other Black actors have had recurring minor roles, including a con artist store clerk who moonlighted as a faux-witchdoctor and the only local cop with common sense. On any other scripted TV show, six recurring Black characters would make True Blood BET comedy instead of a demographically appropriate casting for a Southern drama. So, Ball is to be commended for his commitment to representative diversity, even in places where the books have none. Where it gets a bit dicey is in what he does with all that diverse talent.  

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Friday, August 21, 2009 at 8:46:00 AM EDT
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Good black girls aren’t supposed to be funny. Bad, sassy, preternaturally sexual black girls are. Of course, this is a false dichotomy, but it’s one that has dictated black women’s narrow entrance into comedy for more than a century. This limiting cultural expectation might be why so many Black women comics until Whoopi Goldberg had to create acts and personas implicitly and sometimes explicitly associated with the three Ps (pu**y, promiscuity, and prostitutes) to achieve success. Highly successful entertainers such as Gladys Bentley and Moms Mabley created nightclub acts that were as much erotic blues as they were comedy routines. As raucously sexual as each of these comediennes performances were for their time, with Bentley being sexually suggestive toward the women in her audience and Mabley regularly extolling the sexual virtues of younger men over older men, none have come close to the foul mouth sexual antics of Aunt Esther or the daughters who’ve succeeded her.  
 
LaWanda Page, better known as Sanford and Son’s comically pious “Aunt Esther,” was a fire-blowing stripper when comedian Redd Foxx discovered and recruited her into comedy in the late 60s. While Foxx’s dirty comedy albums were rightfully stamped “for adults only” long before the parental warning labels were an industry standard, Page’s dominating 1970s albums easily eclipsed Foxx in detail, grime and salaciousness, besting the nastiest mouth in comedy. In vast contradiction to the church woman she played on TV, Page sung dirty limericks about anal intercourse, provided step-by-step instructions on cunnilingus and fingering (of males!), and told XXX versions of the set-up/punchline jokes that ruled before Richard Pryor’s storytelling comedic approach forever changed the game. From telling titles like Pipe Layin’ Dan, Mutha is Half A Word, and the gold-selling Watch It Sucker, with sistah girl sass Page carried the comedienne torch further than Bentley and Mabley into a male dominated realm of sexual empowerment and subsequent financial success that other black comediennes have since used as a blueprint for success. From Millie Jackson to the Queens of Comedy (Mo’Nique, Sommore, Ms. Laura Hayes, and Adele Givens), being a successful comedienne meant being something no white female comic ever had to be: sassier, rougher, and more sexually provocative than any man could muster.
 
But, at what cost?

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Wednesday, July 29, 2009 at 8:37:00 AM EDT
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On July 24, 2009, E. Lynn Harris went into cardiac arrest and died at the age of 54 years old. Lynn, as he was known to friends and associates, was a 10 time New York Times bestselling author with over 4 million books in print. This distinction made E. Lynn Harris the first commercially successful, openly Black gay writer in America since James Baldwin. While he stood on the shoulders of a spare number of pioneering Black gay writers who came before him, including: Essex Hemphill, Joseph Beam, Assoto Saint, Yulisa Amadu Maddy, Wallace Thurman, Richard Bruce Nugent, Samuel R. Delaney and other members of this exclusive club, Lynn would go further than any of them in cultural impact and financial reward. Like Harris, all of these writers described the lives of closeted and openly gay Black men, some long before Harris was even born, but Harris fortuitously arrived at a time when the culture was hungry for different, more sophisticated stories about Black people. The public proved eager for operatic tales of Black affluence, celebrity success, and salacious sexual diversities, not the previously dominating stories of poverty, racial animus or traditional sexual and family relations. For them, Lynn delivered, changing the national dialogue about Black gay men forever.

The debut of Invisible Life and its numerous sequels benefited as much from the times as it did from the earnestness of Harris’s fresh, confessional tales of closeted Black male life on the down low. In 1991, when Harris arrived on the scene, America was in the middle of its fourth Black literary renaissance, only this one was better known for its commercial achievement rather than its literary cred. In the late 80s, early 90s, mainstream publishers (again) discovered that Black people do indeed read books and were a considerably large portion of the untapped literary market. The stratospheric success of Terry McMillan’s Waiting To Exhale proved prescient, shepherding in an explosion of Black writers delivering what some derisively be termed “sistah girl fiction” and the vaguely dismissive “urban lit” by others. Simultaneously, Hollywood realized (again) there was an untapped market for urban romantic comedies starring post-Civil Rights buppies in situations parallel to their professional white counterparts. Popular music was just experiencing its split between b-boy rappers and thug crooners and those “queer-oriented” dance music artists like RuPaul, C.C. Penniston, C&C Music Factory, and Crystal Waters whose tribal beats were fostering a revival of the sexually diverse discotheque. In these anything goes nightclubs, straights and gays and everything in between together partied like it was 1999 and tried to live out try-sexual movies like Threesome. The organized gay rights movements were becoming more vocal and visible, but thanks in part to queer racism, was largely a white identified movement. Black gay life was limited to bars, gyms, clubs, parks, bathhouses, fraternities and telephone chatlines—there was no Internet and you could count the national number of Black gay organizations on your hands.

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Friday, July 17, 2009 at 3:06:00 PM EDT
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Black radio and the blogosphere has been awash with Perez Hilton level gossip over 6’5 singer heartthrob, Terrell Carter, allegedly being “outed” by a spurned lover, 22 year-old model/singer Alex Cortez. Cortez has posted pictures on his MySpace and Twitter pages that appear to present the two engaged in a full-on kiss, shots of a sleeping naked Carter being spooned and nuzzled by Cortez, and Brazilian vacation shots of Carter in Speedos surrounded by men at what looks like a gay pride.
 
For those who never heard of Terrell Carter before the infamous pictures made their way across the internet and became debate fodder for gay men and straight women across Facebook, he is a minor celebrity with major celebrity cache. In the 90s, he chilled with Puffy as a Bad Boy session player with childhood friend, Stevie J, wrote for Quincy Jone’s Qwest Records, and sung with gospel icon Fred Hammond’s choir for several years before branching out on his own. Carter hangs out with Brandy and India Arie for fun. The featured star of four Tyler Perry musicals, the singing pastor in the movie version of Tyler Perry’s Diary of A Mad Black Woman, and a recording artist of three independent projects, including the critically acclaimed Carlela’s Reign, Carter is perhaps best known for a frequent performance schtick of disrobing to a form-fitting tank and falling to his knees during his Christian music performances. Needless to say, the upright Christian ladies who made Carter a celeb go wild.
 
A childless, perennial bachelor in his thirties whose presentation is that of a masculine gentleman, the Buffalo-born and bred Carter has literally been the poster child for single Christian women’s desire since he first appeared on the scene nearly ten years ago. In a velvet baritone, he’s sung to them, telling them how he’ll treat them “Better Than” the abusive men he witnessed in his family and how he loves “Thick Girls.” In turn, these women have proven Carter’s most stalwart defenders, with postings that accuse Cortez of doctoring photos or of Carter playacting with Cortez for a mysterious forthcoming movie role. Despite some naysayers who believed outing Carter would finish him, Carter for now is Teflon in his women’s affections.

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Monday, July 6, 2009 at 8:00:00 AM EDT
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The always cutting-edge cable network, HBO, recently debuted their latest salacious summer series, “Hung” starring Thomas Jane. The show delivers the woeful tale of a middle-age, middle-class high school coach whose undistinguished life unravels after a fire decimates his uninsured family home shortly after the loss of his wife and children to the affections of a more disciplined, accomplished man. Using Jane’s character Donnie and the decimated city of Detroit as proxies, the show seeks to offer multiple metaphors for what’s happening in the nation and even the world: the perceived loss of white male privilege, the decline of patriarchy to a feminized world, the erosion of the working class nuclear family to larger social forces, the cultural elevation of capital attainment over all other values, and the clichéd fall of the American empire.

Other than a fading masculine beauty, echoes of an earlier athletic might, Donnie has only one thing going for him, at least to hear him—and also his ex-wife—tell it: Donnie is incredibly hung. Donnie is a bankrupt, disenchanted America whose remaining claim to fame is old athletic glory and its lingering physical might. The show willfully ignores the remaining privileges, attributes, and dare I say the choices Donnie and America made to end up in their unenviable circumstances.
 
Our ironically well-endowed, yet castrated hero eventually decides to take up prostitution to be exploited by the wealthier women in the community. Too inept to attain the necessary capital to maintain the fragile life he inherited from sounder stock (his old world parents) and poorly managed on his own, he allows himself to be pimped by a woman he previously screwed and disdained—someone he once used to prop up his pride. To maintain the illusion of stoic power, an undeservingly arrogant Donnie now must depend on those he believed weaker than him because they deigned to be impressed by his more obvious attributes. Broken, Donnie must knowingly allow someone else to use, exploit, and chip away bit by bit at the only money generating resources he feels he has left, unable to see, appreciate or foster what precious resources he has, those unrelated to his physicality, until they too slip away.
 
I suspect “Hung” will not allow Donnie’s relationship to women and his underestimation of his children and other inherent privileges to follow to their natural conclusion, to mirror so completely America’s relationship to its debt-holder, China. That wouldn’t make must-see TV, as much as tragic Masterpiece Theater. I don’t begrudge the show for trying to make a comedy of such tragic circumstances, but I find their choice of hero a curious one.

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Friday, June 19, 2009 at 8:28:00 AM EDT
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As 78 million Americans enter their silver and golden years, it appears the baby boomers and their parents plan to be game changers right to the very end. Maybe it’s those round-the-clock AARP commercials hawking various insurance companies; the craggy-face, ball-capped geezer ironically spouting liberal think tank spiels in Americana diners; or the news bits about tasered seniors’ smack-talking to cops, but today’s seniors seem to be a far cry from previous generations of Grandmas. They’re demanding respect in every arena and “bogarting” a place on the national stage, refusing to sit quietly rocking, crocheting and offering humble homilies of sepia tone times—“nah, son, you got this Gran twisted!” Films, music, TV, advertising, and even guerilla fight clips—all the media industries are taking notice. Long overdue and fiscally smart considering elders' buying power, Hollywood and Madison Avenue are engaged in some serious 11th hour genuflecting. But is an America reared on the young and sexy now really revering its elders as entertainment? Are seniors revolutionizing what it means to be culturally and commercially viable?

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Friday, June 5, 2009 at 10:58:00 AM EDT
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Married young men in rap and R&B should not sing or rap too much about their marriage or it could spell doom for their career. After Usher married Tameka Foster, then the mother-to-be of his children, both were lambasted in the media and by fans rejecting what used to be considered the most chivalrous and responsible of male acts. Here I Stand, Usher’s “marriage” album, while one of the biggest R&B sellers of 2008, was also a worst seller for his catalog. It was the reverse of what happened for the diamond selling Confessions, where Usher sung of cheating and mistreating his women. Dave Hollister, the big boy of R&B, got plenty of kaching when he sang about cheating on his wife on his debut, but when he started singing about loving and staying true to his wife, fans turned off—helping to steer Hollister’s career to gospel, where songs about his divorce, oddly enough, received a warm reception. From Nas to Anthony Hamilton, there are other career reversals following publicly sung marital lives.
 
Many rap and soul artists are married and fans are usually aware of their spouses, but male artists have learned to keep their marriages out of their music and in the background. For years most of the public didn’t know rapper/actor Method Man was married, and while Tank has been married for years to a beautiful black woman, she doesn’t show up in his videos or explicitly in his lyrics. Married women artists like Kelis, Mary J. Blige, and soon Beyonce have not been equally constrained, and their partners have been prominently featured in their videos and career. Is it because rap and soul men must be sex objects for their audience to be successful? It seems like an unspoken double standard is at work, one where men are penalized for not playing into women’s sexual fantasies. Hmmm, better not get hitched, Flo ‘Rida!
 
These increasingly over-developed muscleheads also cannot depend on those promoting young relationship commitments for explicit support either. Advocates for civility (censorship?) in urban music argue often against male artists rapping and singing demeaning lyrics against women of color, lyrics that characterize Black women as little more than trophies and disposable sex objects. Yet, rarely do we see these advocates extolling the virtues of artists supporting positive depictions of women and relationship commitment. It seems it is easier to disparage what is negative with Black music, rather than praise what is aligned with conservative marriage advocates professed goals; bringing into question whether the attack is actually about eliminating these Black music genres all together.

While the issues and remedies of marital decline in urban communities are more complex than a song, the cultural impact of having influential young men sing about the trials and benefits of committing to a partner cannot be underestimated for the young Black men who have few models or male-centered messages encouraging them to do otherwise. Nearly half of young Black people today can expect never to marry, and it isn’t because the sistahs aren’t trying! Civility advocates financial and marketing support of artists who make marriage sexy or better yet, real and accessible, could be inspiring and influential in how the urban community views relationships that are now more celebrated for their dysfunction than their love.
 
As it stands, male artists who sing of bootie calls, hitting and quitting it, stealing or stalking another man’s girl, or even more quaint single man tales about sexually romancing their “boo,” have a distinct advantage over their publicly married counterparts in the commercial sphere, reaping loyal female fans, platinum plaques and magazine covers - while the opposite continues to happen for R&B and rap artists who sing or rap about the joys and struggles of commitment and married life with their wife (unless they’re singing about infidelity). Pop and country boys don’t seem to nearly have this problem as the recent win of Kris Allen on American Idol or even the highly successful careers of blue-eyed soulster Robin Thicke or country beefcakes like Tim McGraw demonstrate. So why can’t a sexy soul man be a married one? Is it because we don’t really expect or want our Black men to be married or committed? Do we really believe Black men are only good for sex? Yeah, betta not get hitched Flo’ Rida!  


Thursday, May 28, 2009 at 3:46:00 PM EDT
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Gospel artist Tonex has a new album out, Unspoken, but no one seems to notice. The Alternative Prince of Gospel has his first major label release in years (he’s released several independently), and it does less than 5,000 copies in sales during its first few weeks. Radio has not broadly picked up his music, many megachurches have closed their doors to him, and the press on this release has been limited.

The significance of these disappointing early sales and virtual blacklisting of a major talent with nine releases and who’d accrued ten years of fans, speaks to other artists watching from the sidelines wondering how far they can reasonably push gospel boundaries to include more real life experiences, struggles and language without receiving a commercial backlash for their artistic candor.

It certainly will make those gospel singers who have struggled with sexual identity and gender presentation to take note, as Tonex has radically been the only gospel artist to ever play with his gender appearance and discuss personal sexual issues from adultery to child molestation and even same sex feelings with the complex moral conflicts these concerns warrant. His very public demise as an artist could also mean the demise of artists striving to present Christianity as a faith large and compassionate enough to embrace believers who are not perfected, but who engage in lifelong struggle, periods of failure and questioning, and experience tension, confusion, anger and even rebellion with the faith that most speaks to their hearts, but whose most esteemed faithful too often fail to heed its tenets. Tonex’s the artist who reveals himself in the midst of the storm, not the artist who sings about how he got over once the clouds have passed by.

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Friday, May 15, 2009 at 8:30:00 AM EDT
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Jamie Foxx’s “Blame It” has been the no #1 Billboard R&B/Hip Hop song in the country for the last 14 weeks, beating out records by Mariah Carey, Deborah Cox and R. Kelly for longest reign at that spot in Billboard history. So far, only Mary J. Blige’s “Be Without You” has had a longer run, and current momentum has Foxx beating out the Queen of Hip Hop Soul for those honors next week. The club banger is also the number #2 pop song in America, jumping two spots in one week.

I thought I’d take a peek behind this musical sensation sweeping our land and major shows like American Idol, Jimmy Kimmel and—rather curiously un-critiqued on—the Tyra Banks Show. Imagine my surprise when I discovered that recession-weary Americans are groovin’ to much more than the idea of escaping their hard knocks life through the bottle, but we are in fact bouncin’ to a one man’s stealth plot to take advantage of a woman he purposely gets drunk for sex. Have you actually read the lyrics to “Blame It”?

Now, I’m no prude, but what appears to be a simple ode to the joys of different alcohol brands and juvenile irresponsibility (in behavior, not age), essentially depicts women as prey to get drunk and take sexual advantage of. This idea is not new or novel, its reasoning is in fact the reason many perpetrators (gay and straight) are in jail. Some 66% of female victims and 58.5% of male victims of rape say their perpetrator was using alcohol or drugs when they raped them, and almost 20% of women and 38% of male victims were also under the influence.

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Monday, May 4, 2009 at 9:52:00 AM EDT
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I suspect that the new campy Fatal Attraction flick Obsessed starring Beyonce Knowles, Idris Elba, and Ali Larter will prove to be hugely successful with one market, Black women. The premise of white women staking out, stalking and preying on successful Black men who cannot help but succumb to the ladies’ pretty pink toes slyly plays into the cultural ID of some Black women. According to this popular beauty salon myth: all white women secretly lust after Black men (but will only excusably marry or steal—depending on where you sit—the sepia cream of the crop); all Black men become Samson in the face of centuries denied white va—shall we say Delilah’s womanhood; and all Black women have the right to defend their God-given entitlement to Black men, up to and including a well-deserved beatdown of nefarious white women. Not all white women, of course, just those femme fatales threatening the ever-besieged Black family.
 
Obsessed delivers to this Tyler Perry crowd in spades, as this sistah girl myth against white women is essentially the plot in a nutshell. Well, there is one key caveat in Obsessed: the Black man, Idris Elba, is initially weak over, but doesn’t actually bed the white girl. However, that doesn’t stop Beyonce from providing catharsis for angry sisters everywhere by wearing the psycho-slut white women stand-in, Ali Lanter, completely out, fist first. Since Obsessed portrays white women’s lust as so clearly depraved and threatening to the Black family, Beyonce is allowed to virtuously ride her celluloid white horse to the rescue of the Black family in this near-parody of The Birth of a Nation.
 
While some may call the D.W. Griffith reference a stretch (after all, the celebrated 1915 film interpretation of the Clansman did assist in an explosion of KKK membership into the millions), this B-movie’s reverse play on similar racial sentiments. Obsessed isn’t born in a vacuum, with plenty of street corner, Black morning talk radio, and Afro-centric literature propagating these interracial stereotypes. To read the comment section of Jamie Foster Brown’s Sister 2 Sister magazine anytime it spotlights an interracial pairing or any rich black athlete/actor/musician marrying Becky is to hear reverse parallels of Confederate politicians on the senate floor or KKK rednecks at cross-burnings spouting apoplectic about uncontrollable Black male desires toward weak (and implicitly willing) white women. Hear too many rants over Black men need protecting for raping white women, and white women need protecting from raping Black men, and after a while the arbiters against interracial coupling began to sound like the Montagues and the Capulets against fated star-crossed lovers. Who knew what could unite Black women and white men was insecurity about preserving their monochromatic families against taboo café au lait passions?

While there’s no danger of Obsessed leading to an explosion of Black women’s membership for say the National Council of Negro Women or Black women sponsoring new legislation against miscegenation, if the film does prove a box office success it will have done so by cynically by playing into irrational, unfounded fears. It would also say something dark about where some of us still are nearly 100 years after white men in hoods came to defend their families against interracial desire. Only this time the hoods wore weave.

*This posting was originally written prior to the release of weekend box office results. Since written, Obsessed has gone on to be the #1 box office hit of the April 24th week, grossing 28.5 million dollars in a single weekend, the second-highest weekend opening in Screen Gems history.


Friday, April 24, 2009 at 1:35:00 PM EDT
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There have been very few media representations of full-figured Black womanhood that are sexy, strong, vivacious, compassionate, and concerned about the needs of Black people. In film and television, the big Black woman can usually be depended on to be sassy, funny, sexless, and preternaturally concerned with the trials and tribulations of white children over those of her own besieged family and community. Rooted in antebellum fantasies of grateful, satisfied wet nurses and nannies (then termed Mammies) of white children, the character sold everything from maple syrup (Aunt Jemima) to Dixie sheet music. Lifting Mammy from 19th and early 20th century pop culture, Hollywood for nearly 80 years mastered selling Mammy until she became a normalized, iconographic image in the minds of several generations of Americans. Even though movies like Gone with the Wind and Corrina, Corrina and TV shows like Beulah and Gimme A Break are no longer widely acceptable, they still live on as late night films and through reruns aired on nostalgia cable stations like AMC, TCM, and TVLand, their caricatures forever beckoning to new generations with a beautific smile and ample bosom. Pushing Mammy down the stairs, in struts a vibrant Jill Scott and HBO’s No 1 Ladies Detective Agency, a TV series based on 10 best-selling books by Alexander McCall Smith about a lady detective in the Motherland.

 

With each new case-solving episode, Scott dismantles the Mammy image, while also bringing the dignity of African womanhood to international audiences. Set in Botswana, Scott’s character is proud of her “traditional frame” sharing with a slimmer peer “that some men like it that way,” after the woman tried a sly dig at Scott’s weight. No undesirable wallflower, here many men vie for Scott’s attention, including a smitten mechanic sure to eventually win her hand. Indeed, in the premiere, an investigated philanderer with a slender wife tries his damndest to bed Scott, to no avail. More than depicted as desirable, Scott’s a woman of keen intelligence with an unwavering sense of justice and a tireless focus on the needs and welfare of Black children and community. While she was once the victim of violent Black manhood (balanced by her being the clear beneficiary of a caring Black father) and served the role of dutiful daughter, those submissive images serve as a backstory to the dynamic, self-made woman serving the greater good. In this sun-kissed land a proud, independent, voluptuous, Afro-sporting African woman is idealized as the most whole, amidst a desert of half-formed, Westernized women depicted as victims (sometimes complicitly) of men with loose morals. And yet, the character is no saint, rather a rarely seen three-dimensional woman.

 

This is not the first time Jill has dismantled Mammy. As a multi-platinum, Grammy Award-winning soul singer, Scott reminded the music industry that sexy, confident voice comes in all sizes. Before Scott and Angie Stone, large women were expected to be dance divas or belt the blues about Black men who cheated and mistreated them. From Bessie Smith until Aretha started demanding some “R-E-S-P-E-C-T,” with few exceptions, black female singers were required to be fantasy fetishes like Beyonce. Since Scott, several thick to full-figure singers have been given their chance, maybe Hollywood will follow here too. It seems regardless of medium, Jill Scott is giving young women of all sizes a new iconic image to aspire to and believe in, a nurturing figure who is a full fledged human being, this time with a wink to her golden smile.


Friday, March 27, 2009 at 8:07:00 AM EST
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Sexy and nerds historically were once antithetical to one another in Black music. Well, not anymore. In R&B and hip hop nerds are increasingly coming to rule. Rock music has long been the province of the upgraded nerd, that’s old news. Seeing anorexic, deodorant-allergic, stringy-haired rockers have women throwing their panties (among other things) on the stage demonstrated the hypnotic, if not hallucinogenic effect music can have on the soundest of judgment. Where it seemed a prerequisite for rock, soul had very few nerds, but society appears to be changing its expectations about what makes a soul star.
 
Once the smooth moves of the Temptations, the directives of gigolo Teddy, the pretty boy realness of El Debarge and Al B. Sure, and a bevy of R. Kelly millennium clones all said some obvious sexiness, if not beauty was required to play. Cool was Black music’s way. But the mainstreaming of Afro Punk have closed the door to that with high-profile acolytes like Pharrell, Kanye West and Lupe Fiasco proving nerds can earn a mil and get the girl. Besides being commercial successes, these nerds have become leaders in a movement that have broadly connected with Black men, allowing them to be metrosexuals in ways Queer Eye never could. Even neo-soul ruffians like Musiq and Anthony Hamilton have stepped up their GQ cache.
 
These men represent a welcome counterweight to menacing Black male stereotype: a direct one-two punch to the swaggering rapper, proving knuckle-dragging isn’t a prerequisite for female attention and male respect in music or in life. Now some may say: these dudes are gold and platinum stars—the ladies wouldn’t be on it and the fellaz wouldn’t follow suit if these kats were broke, but it t’ain’t necessarily so.
 
Starving nerdy artists have also been bringing sexy back. The soul underground has dished up their own unlikely hipsters like Ryan Leslie, Phonte (Little Brother, Foreign Exchange), and even self-proclaimed weirdo, Peter Hadar. With humor, charm, personality to spare, these fellas have been crooning about that “right girl” to melting hearts, making the impoverished nerd sexy to underground audiences worldwide.
 
One of the starving is on the verge of breaking through with a slick new Puffy version of the nerd (possibly redundant; does anyone not think Puffy is a nerd who made good?). Ryan Leslie, a Harvard graduate and child prodigy, is jumping around stages to the pulsating screams of adoring female fans since the release of his hit single, “Diamond Girl.” Bone thin, with a nose only a mother could love; Ryan exudes cleaned-up nerd despite Rat Pack clothing and an athleticism that makes Billy Blanks look like Monique. Leslie’s hard work and decade-long climb as a behind-the-scenes producer /songwriter who quietly studied other entertainers until his was the most high energy show on the scene mirrors the platinum rise of fellow nerd Kanye West.
 
Maybe Leslie isn’t following West at all? He could be following a certain fellow Harvard alum, a reformed Black Hawaiian nerd who smiled, charmed and intellectualized his way right into the heart of the toughest broad of all, America. Who said nerds finish last?


Friday, March 20, 2009 at 7:07:00 AM EST
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Do you still get props for biggin’ up safe sex, if your music describes women as nothing more than sex trophies? By lyrically demeaning women as sex toys, R&B artist, The Dream, may be testing the boundaries of sex positive advocates’ patting the backs of artists who make safer sex sexy for younger audiences. The Dream’s not alone. Increasingly mainstream R&B has become a raunchy, expletive engorged affair, moving from the scintillating and sensual to the salacious and retrograde in its sexual politics (while being sexually responsible about wearing jimmies). Yet, there are no campaigns against R&B like those launched by conservatives against hip hop or by progressives against dancehall. Artist with music like The Dream begs the question: why does R&B get a pass?
 
The artist who made it big writing about Rihanna’s “Umbrella,” ella, ella, eh, eh has a new release as notable for its sexually exploitive language as it is for its nod toward empowered women carrying condoms. Love Vs Money hosts some of The Dream’s most explicit lyrics to date, coming a long way from his syrupy 2007 hits “Shawty is a 10” and “I Luv Your Girl.”  Looking for more street cred, The Dream has traded in that good guy image on Love Vs Money through songs like “Let Me See The Booty.”
 
“…Booty” demolishes the boy next door image: If you ain't got no booty then you gotta go home/But if you got a booty shawty show me yo thong/ Keep rockin' that a**, trick pass the patron/Get Jon on the phone, let's get this sh*t crunk.
 
The Dream tells women who don’t have cakes to step to the back of the line, regardless of face, class or waistline. He further compliments the endowed by stating their genetic reward will be the boaster blessing their backside. According to “…Booty,” the only value women have is in their da-dunk-dee-dunk trunks.
 
These songs are readily found in the catalogs of thug crooners following R. Kelly’s trail to R&B riches, from Jaheim to Ginuwine. Their lyrics, particularly when uptempo, are not much different from what rappers say about “b*tches and hos” and yet R&B is still considered “women’s music.” Appropriately, when the “ladies’ song” comes on, women run to the dance floor to drop it like it’s hot to objectifying lyrics, many who’d get self-righteous over similar “poetry” by 50 Cent. Go figure.
 
For R&B fiends who make excuses to support their soul fix, but diss hip hop as anti-feminist should take note, “…Booty” is a long way from the “Sexual Healing” your mama used to play. Celebrate artists like Lyfe Jennings, those willing to discuss safer sex and consequences, but don’t act as though R&B is always still respectful in its discourse on women. I don’t advocate censorship, but if hop hop and dancehall are on the advocates’ hot seat for offensive messaging, what’s good for the goose should be good for the gander.


Friday, February 27, 2009 at 7:52:00 AM EST
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On Friday the 13th, the latest installment of Friday the 13th film series was unleashed on an all too willing public. The newly re-imagined version of the original horror classic was number one at the box office and shattered previous horror records for a February opening weekend. The critics universally panned the flick as predictable, needless gore and engaged in collective eye-rolling as Jason did his usual shtick of picking off unsuspecting teens traipsing again through his Camp Crystal Lake. Repeatedly the reviewers asked variations of this theme: “Why; why won’t we let this franchise die?” Lots of feminist arguments can be made against a series glorifying a serial killer whose victims are largely young, naked females. A favorite target by Christian conservatives seeking film censorship, Jason is presented as the celebrated kid killer with no artistic merit and further evidence of society’s corroding moral fabric. While arguments can be made that the real target of these filmmakers are teens and young adults, I think conservatives don’t fully get how much Jason is their ally. Not that it matters, all the critical theory jargon from the left or right hasn’t slowed Jason’s machete-swinging roll through the hearts and minds of millions—not one bit. If you doubt me, consider that his 40 million boffo opening weekend was done during our living reality show entitled The Great Depression II, when cheaper entertainments—and pirated copies—are everywhere. Why more Jason? Maybe it’s because Jason satisfies something primal and deeply conservative in the heart of America. For questioners of his endurance, accepting the truth of what Jason says about the depth of conservative American values might be—for some—the biggest horror of all.
 
The Jason Voorhees chronicles have made hundreds of millions in the 30 years since the campfire tale first made it to the big screen, not including the millions in merchandising, video games and collector memorabilia spawned and courted by Jason lovers. His is a simple, if inconsistent tale. Jason, a deformed, socially awkward child was sent to a summer camp in the woods by a doting, if mentally fragile single mother (no father has ever been named for Jason: future storyline maybe?). The young lad was a social outcast during his camp tenure because of his facial deformity. The teenage camp counselors who should have been watching the child during his afternoon swim in Crystal Lake were instead off kanoodling with one another, making whoopee, and the boy—left alone—accidentally drowned. News of this sent Jason’s mother over the edge, causing her to avenge her son’s death on the next batch of teens to visit a shuttered Camp Crystal Lake. Ms. Voorhees’ beheading at the hand of the lone virginal survivor was subsequently witnessed by her “drowned” now adult son, Jason. A no-longer diminutive Jason would for the next 12 installments avenge his mother’s death by anyone foolish enough to spend an evening in his woods.
 
The goal of nearly all subsequent installments is to figure out new, ever incoherent ways to get another batch of teens down to Camp Crystal Lake, be it in Manhattan or outer space, so Jason can avenge his mother’s death. But America’s well-documented love of the vigilante is not why Jason is so beloved. No; Jason is beloved because he restores American-style social order, not contemporary social order but a conservative thread of American values propagated since the Victorian age. As His Name Is Jason, a documentary chronicling Jason’s unyielding cultural popularity, points out: Jason kills anyone who has sex or uses drugs, and only virgins survive in Jason films. Only virginity, it is said by the film’s narrators, seems to give the sweet, morally sound girl-next-door the power and strength to beat off and “kill” the big bad monster. Shame those dead harlots lacked the necessary virtue to wield an axe into a murderer’s skull; fo’ shame.
 
Jason, however, does more than kills the proverbial whore and junky. He kills anyone who’s rude, obnoxious, or demonstrates bad manners in their character establishing scenes. Jason kills anyone lacking sound judgment and reasoning or who operates out of arrogance. He kills trespassers, especially those who always seem to be breaking or walking into other people’s homes with little or no announcements. He definitely kills all those token minorities hanging out with the white folks. Interestingly he has a taste for the very rich and the very poor alike, leaving—by comparison—the middle class salt-of-the-earth relatively unscathed. Jason kills those the 19th century adherents of Victorian values would have despised, challenging the boorish behaviors of the promiscuous and ridding the world of the “other.” When considering the strict, regressive Victorian era, one valuing piety, chastity, temperance, frugality, self-righteousness, high manners, restrained tongues, limited expressiveness, and an obsession with the purity of morals and bloodlines; Jason Voorhees is the ultimate Victorian. He with the swing of his mighty sword is society’s corrector, getting those that political correctness and liberalism has let run amok. Ashamed by our own bloodlust, we are comforted by the knowledge that the manifestations of all our dark longings will be murdered, if only to rise again like Lazarus in the next chapter.
 
For many who don’t even see themselves as conservative, there is a telling catharsis in his endlessly creative homicides against those supposedly only conservatives’ hold in disdain, one breathlessly released through cheers and laughter down the aisles. The single-dimensionality of victims characters is purposeful, making it easier for audiences to sit in relished judgment of the easily recognizable foolish mortals traipsing through their own woods, their lives. With their cheers, they implicitly corroborate Jason’s executioner’s verdict, eager to see how Jason will take care of those who, with their lack of propriety, rob their lives of a more moral, common sense society. Interestingly, fans who regularly watch Jason films seem to be those with the least power, but who are often the most socially conservative: adolescents, minorities, and young white men (particularly blue collar Yankees and Southern red necks). Even more young women are checking out Jason with every new chapter. Apparently, Jason has more bi-partisan appeal than even Obama.
 
The man behind the splintered hockey mask proves an anti-hero, but a hero nonetheless, allowing a spent people to leave behind their darkest internal expressions as the credits roll. In our cultural milieu, what Jason symbolically protects is scary, how he protects it is downright terrifying, but in his absence (and the innumerable copycats like him), where might the outlet for so such much of Americans’ underlying hatred and conservative frustrations go? Jason the Victorian may be a frightening monster, but he’s safely on the screen absorbing the worst of us, our own celluloid vampire. How much more horrific a place might America be without his visual rituals of cultural absolution, a safe space to burn off or project our ugliest hopes against those feared, envied, or ostracized? Honestly? I’d rather have Jason walk among me, than the real woodland monsters and mobs of hate that preceded him and whose dark, conservative longings still live among us all.
 

 


Tuesday, February 17, 2009 at 8:30:00 AM EST
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It is the end of another year of American Idol auditions, and, conversely, a grateful end to the weeks long Scud missile assault on the myth of the sangin’ queen. This American myth has been an enduring one and a perennial favorite for those who like to believe every choir loft, glee club and Broadway chorus line is lined with preternaturally talented homosexual men. “Voice for days” is one of the few perceived benefits that come with the otherwise socially accursed gay gene. Akin to other innate talents like color coordination, choreography and the empathic ability to offer PhD level relationship counseling to straight girls in crisis, the belief that queens—like Negroes—need only open their mouths and magical melodies in perfect pitch sweeten the air has kept us in reverence and straight male hateration for centuries.
 
Then here comes American Idol carting out a parade of rainbow children who wouldn’t know a chromatic scale if it came gift-wrapped on Terrell Owens’ buns. Day after day for weeks on end it seems that every squalling boy who ever pranced in the mirror mimicking Mariah and Whitney on his mother’s hairbrush has the chutzpah to try their hand at authorial renditions of Neyo, Stevie Wonder, Otis Redding, and –gulp—Michael Jackson. They try octave jumps and gospel “runs” when they haven’t bothered to learn fundamentals like pitch, placement or just being somewhere in the vicinity of a song’s original melody line. Yet, they stand before a barely composed Simon, Paula, Randy and Kara, triumphant in the knowledge that falling confetti, placard-pumping fans, and a puerile #1 anthem about overcoming adversity are all just months from their grasp.  
 
When met with blistering truths about their lack of vocal acumen, they first appear to not quite comprehend the magnitude of the judges’ comments. They blink away the waves of criticism, holding fast to the myth. Wondering when their fairy dust was going to settle in Cowell’s ears to hide those missed arpeggios, they appear as confounded and wide-eyed as George W. receiving curiously calamitous news in a kindergarten.
 
Then it sinks in: their hair “product,” generous helping of clear MAC gloss, Jackie-O shades, and calculated casual, 80s chic ensemble will not get them a yellow-ticket to Hollywood, much less a spread in W. “Tone deaf, you say? But…but, that can’t be true. I’m a homo! I am song!” they say to themselves before digging in their heels to defend the honor and one of the few social privileges of fairies everywhere. Ah, but first there is a little thing called begging left to do.
 
Genuflecting with the subservience of a Boston nun, they grovel for a chance at another song to wreck. After all, they’re fabulous! Who cares about such pesky details like singing and talent when you have a bonafide idol right in your midst? When kindly reproached for wanting to further damage America’s delicate eardrums and the Legend of Sangin’ Queer, they begin to turn nasty. The sunshades drop down on pressed-powdered noses, hand land defiantly on hips, and the neck begins to roll as they begin to tell judges in the voice of Foxy Love that it is they who are tone deaf! They who are robbing America of the best stars since Barry Manilow, Johnny Mathis, Liberace, and that Grande Dame himself, Clay Aiken!
 
Kicking platform heels in the air as security drags away lithe, writhing frames, shouting contraltos (ah, yes, there’s that high note!) they utter poxes on the houses of A.I.’s Fantastic Four. The door closes behind their last curse on Paula’s weave, and America is left with a horrible, sobering truth: All Queens Can’t Sing. OMG, what’s next: All Black Men Can’t Jump? “Dayum, now what are we suppose to do with Little Ray Ray singing Rihanna in Mama’s mirror?” 


Sunday, February 1, 2009 at 12:11:00 PM EST
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There is something moving, swaying and beautiful about a good love song. When performed by a skilled, yet unbridled soul singer, a simple song about love becomes transformed into an aching, nearly unnerving display of vulnerability and unassailable honesty. Romantic soul dares you to deny the truth of the love it professes; this distinction gives powerful cultural and emotional validity to heterosexual love, which may be why so few gay soul singers have dared to sing the love—or even the lust, for that matter—that “dare not speak its name.” As a man who professes to be love’s advocate, heretofore political soul singer William Scott may be about to change all that.

 
With a brilliantly multi-layered debut, Who's Afraid of William ScottScott has the rare merit of being a Black “out” gay soul singer from day one. In this way, he beats out talented contemporaries like Donnie, Billy Porter, Rahsaan Patterson and even Johnny Mathis—all Black major label artists who came out after the mainstream spotlight had passed. On the male side, only Nhojj, Manchildblack, Phillip Alexander, and—a much less talented—Jesse O, have debuted as “out” singers with works exclusive outside of the liberal world of house and dance music since the days of Sylvester and today’s Energizer Bunnies, Byron Stingily and Anthony Antoine. Scott also has company among folksy and rock-oriented black lesbian and bisexual singers like Doria Roberts, Ashley Phillips and, of course, Meshell Ndegeocello (I’d count Tracy Chapman, but novelist Alice Walker “outed” Tracy to the U.K. Guardian; Chapman has yet to “out” herself). These singers are certainly not the only Black queer singers hustling to be heard, but they are among the most popular (and dare I say, most talented?) who decided to publicly be who they are right from the start.

As Black artists operating in the heterosexual bastion of soul, their willingness to be the canaries in the mine when the costs are still high and the obvious returns so low is laudable. Commendable as it may be that white gay soul singers Tim Dillinger and Adam Joseph do more than credible jobs as “out” blue-eyed soul artists, there are enough majority peers keeping them company as soulful white gay artists, including magazine cover boys Sam Sparro and Ari Gold, to prevent either from achieving unique cultural distinction. Scott and the new breed won’t have that problem; they are clearly black pioneers in R&B and soul.
 
What will make Scott standout from even his most distinguished and talented peers as a gay male artist will be his forthcoming embrace of the love ballad, without gender effusion. It seems that every other Black gay artist singing in an R&B and soul vein about intimacy does so without explicitly speaking of their partners’ gender. Even Nhojj, whose three soul/jazz albums arguably presents him as the most romantic balladeer of the bunch, plays it safe here. Lesbian artists are ahead of the curve on this, but only just barely. A polite, un-politicized “you” is the most famous word in the gay songwriter’s dictionary (“baby,” may be a close second), and it’s getting real tired, real fast. Billy Porter’s self-consciously campy rendition of “And I Am Telling You” on his live From Broadway to Soul album doesn’t cut it—unrequited love should be played for tears, not chuckles. Scott may prove to be different, if less popular than the Broadway baby (Porter) or the jazz club darling (Nhojj).
 
After releasing a debut project of largely social commentary and inspirational tunes, William Scott is determined to be more intimate and even more “out” on his untitled sophomore project expected as a summer release. From what I’ve heard of the amazing rough cut of several new songs in an exclusive listening party with Tim’m West, there is already at least one song clearly devoted to Scott’s long-time partner and more explicit intimacy is anticipated. Scott, as he assured me, is “all about love.” I hope he means it. In the meantime, I’m forced to connect with Anthony Antoine’s wonderfully opportunistic “Dante’s Got A Man”( a kitschy response to Chante Moore’s hit, “Chante’s Got A Man”), or lie to myself about the meaning of Luther Vandross’s grossly misunderstood cover of “Killing Me Softly” (a ballad about a listener’s visceral response to a musician’s performance—that’s all folks!).
 
No, until Scott or the rest take that next obvious step, I’ll do what gays and lesbians who love romantic soul music have had to do since Jesus was a boy: change songs’ gender pronouns in my head and extract from those lyrics expressions germane to my loves and experience. Don’t feel too bad for us lyric distillers, parched and wandering in the musical wilderness, thirsty for validating reflections about our love, lusts, romances, and heartaches through song. Flipping a ballad or blues about heterosexual love into a swoon about same sex love isn’t as difficult as one might suspect; no matter how annoying when making a partner’s mixtape. After all, love is love regardless of whose love is being expressed. Still, it would be nice to hear, just once, about a love of our own.
 


Saturday, January 24, 2009 at 12:23:00 PM EST
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 Say gay music or queer music and a couple of rapidly dated visions emerge. Visions of handsome, short-haired women—mostly white—strumming acoustic guitars or skyscraping drag queens—mostly black—belting falsetto over a dance track immediately come to mind. A barely memorable butch queen or two singing techno, electronica, or house may register a mental blip, but otherwise few queer masculine images in popular music, especially black-identified music, will pop-up. Sadly, those who operated outside of these stereotypes in real life generally haven’t been very good singers or songwriters, putting out sub-par crumbs of material which gay audiences eagerly consumed because it was better than nothing at all. However, several genuinely good artists are beginning to color the queer lines of gay popular music, and I say it’s about damn time too. Where have ya’ll been, and why have you made us wait so long?

 

Ask any LGBT black music lover over 30 and they will breathlessly describe just how long they’ve been waiting for their Melissa Ethridge, Aimee Mann, Elton John, George Michael and Boy George. The wait was particularly acute in the 90s when everyone was coming out - everyone whit,e that is. Throughout the 90s black images in queer music were mostly Afro-centric earth mothers like Toshi Reagon, bisexual rebels like Meshell Ndegeocello, or RuPaul (no adjective needed). Certainly, there were no out gay hip hop or R&B artists, with “out” being the operative word.

 

At least not artists while they were still in their commercial prime. Several were forced out because of illness, like the departed singer/songwriter Kenny Greene (Mary J. Blige, Will Smith) of the R&B quarter, Intro; or “outed” by police in embarrassing vice stings like Quincy Jones’ discovery, Tevin Campbell. Several artists have come out during their middle age, once no one was really paying attention and their major label careers had long passed them by. We won’t even discuss Luther Vandross or the rumors surrounding luminaries like Phyllis Hyman. Only chart-topping dance artists like Sylvester, Carl Beam and Byron Stingily were willing to represent as out Black gay artist while in their commercial prime.

 

Now, there has always been something queer in black music. Music videos have long been peopled by curiously gendered men and women who received the more ambiguous label of “freak” (think Grace Jones, Nona Hendryx, Annie Lennox and 80s mascara boys like Prince and Jermaine Stewart). There have also always been over-the-top sangin’ queens in gospel who with heavy lisps would lament in interviews about God’s negligence in sending them a wife (if ever there was ever evidence of God’s wisdom, this is it). Still, Black music was the bastion of heterosexuality. Then along came Tim’m West.

 

A soul singer, hip hop poet and academician (Duke, New School and Stanford graduate), Tim’m West has released three books (BareFlirting, and Red Dirt Revival) and eight hip hop albums—five with the rap group Deep Dickollective and three solo projects (Songs From Red DirtBlakkBoy Blue(s), and his latest) of traditional hip hop with clear lineage to 80s rap and the Black Arts Movement. With his overtly sexual and political lyrics, the swaggering intellectual also is an heir apparent of the 80s Black Queer Movement led by writers like Essex Hemphill, Barbara Smith, Audre Lorde and Joseph Beam. His latest album, In Security: The Golden Error his best produced to date, with more than half being radio-ready in quality and modernity. Tim’m West has been the Black gay rap pioneer we thought the manufactured Baby Phat recording artist, Caushun, was going to be in the early 2000s, before he got locked up for identity theft. West’s indie shows are well attended, he’s in-demand on the college lecture circuit and, as a feminist and self-avowed “Kingchaser,” he is the darling of pro-feminists and bears alike. Conscious rap artists like Talib Kweli and soul men such as Gary Taylor regularly offer West the credibility of mainstream praise. Adding to the chorus are the many blogs, national magazines, regional newspapers, and documentaries (Pick Up The MicBeyond Beats and Rhymes, and the forthcoming Bring Your “A” Game) prominently featuring West. Though nearing 40 years in age, he still possesses a boyish appearance and—listening to the artistic progression on his albums—one feels his best work is still ahead of him, promising a future bounty for those who’ve been waiting for him and his breed.

 

I chose to focus on West in this first installment because he is more than a pioneer; West is the Kevin Bacon of Black queer music movement. West’s circle of friends and associates are a virtual who’s who of the queer people of color music scene, including Donnie, Baron, Nhojj, Ashley Phillips, Phillip Alexander, and Rahsaan Patterson. If the laundry list seems daunting for those just discovering there is more gay music in the world than k.d. lang, West’s latest tours and project, In Security…, offer a primer for beginners seeking other gay boundary pushers, including: Bryn’t, Deadlee, Last Offence, Tori Fixx, Tim Dillinger and the indomitable soul singer, William Scott (more on Scott and soul singers in the next installment). Tim’m West and his circle represents the future of gay music, Black music and a pop music future where same sex loves, hates and politics will be put to digital wax. Their efforts today feed the waiting, while offering hope for a time when singing about same sex lives isn’t revolutionary at all, but just another banging iPod track in the hood.


Wednesday, January 7, 2009 at 1:37:00 PM EST
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Incidental lesbianism was on a rampage in 2008. Blame Katy Perry. Blame Lindsay Lohan. I blame barsexuals. For the uninitiated, barsexuals are straight-identified women who: a.) kiss other women in the bar for men’s sexual arousal and the promise of free booze; b) tease lesbians by dangling potential experimenting before them, but who really just like to taste other’s women’s cherry Chapstick; c.) egotistical, self-indulgent broads who could care less about Sappho crushes or the fantasies of beer-guzzling slugs whose voyeuristic visions of full-on hot lezzie action will never get realized in-person, at least not beyond the cheap thrills of a bar kiss. I’m with the conservatives when I say the collapse of these women’s inhibitions for situational homosexuality is nothing less than an act of terror on American womanhood…uh, lesbian womanhood that is.
 
If only Katy Perry’s smash hit, “I Kissed A Girl” weren’t so darn catchy, that women felt compelled to heed it’s seductively urgent call. If only “Girls Gone Wild” hadn’t proved such an effective fast track to five of a fulfilled life’s 15 minutes of fame. If only Tyra Banks hadn’t upped the cultural ante by having barsexuals on one of her highest-rated shows ever, coquettishly batting their lashes and spouting coy questions like “what’s the big deal” and making declarative statements about their self-conscious acts of “sexual liberation.” I had no idea that Gloria Steinhem, Betty Friedman, Bell Hooks and Michelle Wallace had worked so hard so women could french each other for male “enhancements” and lesbian heartbreak. Iron-Jawed Angels are rolling in their graves.
 
However, interestingly enough, many contemporary lesbians are not outraged; with several seeing barsexuals as an opportunity for free feels and hetero cocktails. When Katy Perry’s “I Kissed A Girl” was named number two on Logo’s Top Five Fake Lesbians of 2008, lesbian commentators expressed no knowledge of their victimhood. Instead, the women proved as thirsty for barsexuals as the men who were dousing them in vodka tonics. Proving as welcome as a 24 hr. Krispy Kreme to Oprah, several talked about being very open to making out with beautiful straight women exploiting their taboo, exoticized sexuality for freebies. Apparently, identity politics and pop culture aside, these drooling ladies were clued into the lyrics of the Casabalanca theme, “As Time Goes By,” in a way many of us political advocates were not: “A kiss—even an un-PC, dubiously motivated kiss—is still a kiss.” And a lesbian act for kicks and profit, no lesbian makes.   


Tuesday, December 23, 2008 at 11:01:00 AM EST
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It slapped me in the face a couple of months ago. I was watching CNN minding my own homosexual business, when on the nation’s most respected cable news channel a pundit began to describe Sarah Palin as a MILF. No, the talking head was not calling Alaska’s favorite maverick a member of the Moro Islamic Liberation Front. He was referring to milady as a very different MILF (though in the media’s recent overuse, no less terrorizing), a “Mother I’d Love to F…” well, let’s just say the last word is something most of us never actually want to see our mothers doing. The news bit was about the MILF tagline adorning T-shirts and other ’08 election paraphernalia. Since the landmark day CNN gave the green light to MILF, I’ve seen it used throughout every media medium and in civil society everywhere; perhaps nowhere more than in music and celebrity journalism. But are we really culturally at some new sexual enlightenment yet? What is the suddenly popular usage of MILF saying about our culture…uhm…I mean beyond the obvious? 
 
We’ve always had MILF, of course. Well, not me per say, but surely with the average American woman bearing 1.9 children, there’s quite the market for these fertile ladies among my hetero brethren. It seems curious that the term MILF ever gained traction from its original use: as a pornographers’ niche marketing tool to sell fetishists products. Surprising, because what it describes is so terribly ordinary as to barely pass the funky fetish test: a sexual woman who’s had a child or a sexy woman who’s over 35 and has achieved a maturity that presumes prior child bearing. Were straight guys really not wanting to sleep with Reba McIntyre and Claire Huxtable before MILF got legs? Did Mrs. Cleaver need to show a ‘lil more cleavage to Eddie Haskell to win this glamorous compliment on her womanhood? Maybe like Nas, all she needed was one mic.
 
Beyond mainstream media, the music scene is rife with MILF. Everyone from a barely 27 Britney Spears to a sprightly 39 year old Gwen Stefani has been slapped with this supposedly flattering, yet slippery tag. Remember when Brit fell from grace at the 2007 VMAs after she had a little motherly cellulite jiggle? But with her decently received, leaner performance a year later, Spears landed back on the lauded MILF list. “Whew!” I’m sure her sweating label execs thought, “We could have never sold her looking as if she gave life.” If Brit’s’ example is instructive, there’s a certain irony at work if what it means to be a MILF is to look as if you’ve never actually had children, apparently something a permanently lean Madonna figured out a Lourdes ago. It makes the media culture standard for MILF one of anorexic matrons who appear “sexy spinster” or at the very least Desperate Housewife
 
The public embrace of MILF is not the death of our cultural myth that age and motherhood ruin a woman’s sex appeal. That’s alive and well. Be clear, Rosanne Barr is not considered a MILF; neither will singer-songwriter Adele when her time comes.
 
Cash in this “compliment” at your own risk. Brittany will tell you. Sistah, once in, you’ve (again) joined a club of impossibly high, male-imposed sexual bars you’re expected to climb, only remixed for the mother set. And all for what? To be considered pollination worthy by the beer belly set or the men running Big Fashion? Really?
 
MILF is just another way to market women as sex objects and for marketers to capitalize on women whose genetics and metabolism make the heights of iconographic MILF un-scalable. Maybe it’s worth the anguish if you have a record deal worth millions, but then again Britt did lose her min…never mind. Save Reba, Claire, June and yes, even Britney: Stop using MILF now!      


Thursday, November 20, 2008 at 4:01:00 PM EST
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Maybe it’s because I’m a guy. Maybe it’s because I’m a gay guy. But, I don’t think so. I think Beyonce is confused when it comes to what contemporary gender looks like in America. Sometimes she is biggin’ up women with anthems like “Independent Women,” highlighting their economic liberation from men. On tunes like “Lose My Breath” she’s putting women in the sexual driver’s seat, making boys scurry to figure out how they can sexually put their women first. While overexposure to the hook “you must not know ‘bout me” caused blood-curdling screams to escape from my esophagus every time I turned on pop radio, even last year’s hit “Irreplaceable” was the 2007 version of Aretha Franklin’s “Respect.” On their face these feminist-lite moments feel in conflict with the domestic servitude of “Cater 2 U” and the retro-possessive, anti-woman rant of “Ring The Alarm.” Beyonce’s circa 1950s songs about women in relationships are at least somewhat in touch with the internal conflict today’s women feel about their feminist independence and their longings to be treated with the care, reverence and protections they believe their foremothers’ experienced. So, when did Beyonce take her finger off the internal pulse of today’s woman?
 
“If I Were A Boy” the single off her latest album, I Am…Sasha Fierce, has a take on male and female gender roles that is presented as wish fulfillment but is actually closer to today’s realities than Beyonce seems to understand. The first-person song describes a woman who wishes she were a boy for a day, to experience relationships with the emotional freedoms of men. What follows is a listing of traditionally masculine activities (drink beer with the guys, chase after girls) and attitudes (kick it with who I wanted), that are supposedly male. She further pushes these old school gender roles with a video that shows a woman working late, flirting with co-workers and being callous about her man’s feelings. The secret, head-scratching gimmick of the video is supposed to come when the actors change roles near the end. Women doing men’s work? Women sleeping with whoever they please and being unfaithful? Women “doing them” not matter how those actions affect their partners? “Ooooooo, so ED-GYYY!” Say it with me folks: “Not!” Edgy would have been to expose women as equal perpetrators in lust and love.
 
I’m not entirely sure if Beyonce has been too busy J-Stepping with queens (check out the video for “Single Ladies…”) to know what’s going on in with heterosexuals, but women are doing all the things that Beyonce can only suppose they could. They are cheating, working “men’s jobs,” drinking with the girls (Sex In The City anyone?), treating men in relationships like men used to treat them. Daytime TV is filled with these grassroots stories, but clearly Suga Mama isn’t watching. Time and feminism has given young women license to do all the things that men can do, with more women supports and less social backlash for doing so. Now, women don’t always get away with “bad boy” behaviors without social consequences, but many are and have greater personal freedoms to do so.
 
The danger of Beyonce’s message on “If I Were A Boy” is that it supports women’s role as relationship victims of love and male behaviors, robbing women of their identity to assert themselves and be owners in those experiences, to switch roles or excuse themselves from these games altogether (why isn’t Beyonce still sending dudes to the left?). It also uppercuts those men who are in modern relationships where women are running roughshod over them, making their experience invisible and essentially calling these men—by Beyonce’s definition of boyhood—females.
 
I don’t know who the Nells from the country are that Miss B. is hanging out with in Houston, but mama needs to upgrade them. Today’s modern woman doesn’t have to wish she were a boy, she’s that and so much more.

 

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