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Sunday, September 27, 2009 at 9:00:00 PM EDT

This is such GROUND BREAKING news, folks. The American Psychological Association has just declared that psychologists should NOT be telling gay people that they should turn straight.
 
.....*cricket, cricket, cricket*
 
But seriously, this progressive step is interesting in that the APA is encouraging these psychologists to consider "multiple options": celibacy to switching churches.
 
That brings me to my next point: I disagree. I mean, are there really multiple options to being gay? I can't see how being celibate can somehow reverse your sexual orientation or downsize the impact of your homosexuality. While this declaration from APA is groundbreaking, it should seem like common sense. Of course you can't tell gay people to turn straight! Why is this even being debated?
 
The report by the APA seems to be addressing sexual orientation and religious affiliation, stating that "religious faith and psychology do not have to be seen as being opposed to each other," despite ongoing battles between the Church and homosexuality.
"The report also addressed the issue of whether adolescents should be subjected to therapy aimed at altering their sexual orientation. Any such approach should “maximize self-determination” and be undertaken only with the youth’s consent, the report said."
I don't really know what to make of that. The article has a very pro gay rights tone to it (aside from that one paragraph), so I don't want to be the obnoxious liberal one busting it's balls (sorry). But take it from Wayne Besen, a gay rights activist:
Ex-gay therapy is a profound travesty that has led to pointless tragedies, and we are pleased that the APA has addressed this psychological scourge.”

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I hope that the report advises psychologists to refer such clients to religious leaders who affirm sexual and gender diversity as part of God's blessings, who can help them explore alternative understandings of seemingly homophobic sacred texts, and to understand that there are religious communities where they would be fully welcome and included. I work with people struggling with these issues all the time, and it often takes only a few sessions with a clergy person for people to feel affirmed and welcome. There have been many times where simply telling someone that I know that God loves them just the way they are...and that there are many denominations and religious leaders who feel that way...helps them reach self-acceptance. No one should ever have to choose between their sexuality and their religion -- or vice versa. I hope the final APA report says that as well without using any instant cash.
# Posted By KadenceW | 9/28/09 04:17 AM | Report | Reply