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Blog - Amplify your voice

Friday, January 23, 2009 at 2:45:00 PM EST

(The follwing is part of our weeklong Roe v. Wade Blog-a-thon)
(crossposted at
MeanRachel.com)

If men could become pregnant, an abortion would be renamed a gentler term, like "release."  This would remind those around them that they're not aborting a life but declining the option to begin one. 
 
Religious men would argue that the Bible's failure to directly address abortions indicates that becoming pregnant is such a personal event, even God himself could not seek to interfere.  Psalm 139, when David praises God for letting his life begin in the womb, would no longer only symbolize the sovereignty of life.  It would instead remind us that babies are "made in secret (v. 15)," and that a child should be "skillfully wrought (v. 15)," not hastily or unilaterally brought into this world for lack of an alternative.

If men could become pregnant, they would toss change down on the counter for birth control pills when they picked up their six-pack of Heineken.  They would have unlimited access to their reproductive health care professionals and no annual insurance limits on how many times they could be seen.
 
They would be careful with their promises.
 
They would be driving along with their girlfriend and announce, without a drop of shame, that they had decided to have a release.  It would be understood and accepted; likely commonplace and unemotional.  There would be no tears or discussion, just a day where they didn't come to work.
 
Life would begin at the first heartbeat and clenched five-fingered fist. 
 
Some men might choose to carry the baby, deciding that a release wasn't necessary.  Some might decide that they aren't financially stable enough.  Some might feel the mother of the child wasn't the one they wanted to raise children with.  But if men could become pregnant, they would all agree on one common concept:  There would be a choice.

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# Posted By  Leah627 | 1/23/09 06:37 PM | Report | Reply
preach it
# Posted By  willdelphia | 1/24/09 12:20 AM | Report | Reply
Just to bring a rather interesting fact to the front for this topic...a few months ago there was a People's magazine...I think bac in Nov.  And out of fascination after reading "Man pregnant with second child"....yea I know I quickly turned through to find the story.  Now I wonder how that theory would work with a man that used to be a woman, married a woman and bared the children instead of his wife.  ~~~~This all took place in a town I cant remember the name of, but this husband is the proud Mother/Father to I believe a girl and soon to be the proud Mother/Father to another child....Of courselike me the question of "how?" probably came to mind.  When receiving the "genetic" modifications to become a man the woman decided to keep her feminine abilities as well, (ovaries etc), my question stillis how was he insiminated as he has from what I understood undergone the complete transformation without having his tubes tied.  The first baby was deliever Caesarean as will happen with the second baby.
Food for thought....if all men could get pregnant....hmmm...what a world....
# Posted By blakvelvt269 | 1/24/09 05:24 AM | Report | Reply
Well said.
# Posted By hazel_button | 1/25/09 01:54 PM | Report | Reply
Fantastic writing. I only disagree with one thing: men would not have to slap change down for birth contro; it would already be IN the beer. And it would be safe, and it wouldn't make them crazy or dopey or weird; just SAFE.
# Posted By  Pheo152 | 1/27/09 01:17 AM | Report | Reply
I agree that if male-bodied people could get pregnant that there would feasibly be more men who were ok with abortion, but I don't think that it would "solve" the anti-choice issue or end the abortion debate. There are scores of women who are anti-choice too. 
# Posted By  MidwestGenderQueer | 1/30/09 01:58 AM | Report | Reply