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Blog - Amplify your voice

Tuesday, January 25, 2011 at 10:14:00 AM EST
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A few days back when i was passing my neighbour's house in school, i saw a small crowd of people gathered and as i walked closer i noticed Ivy my neighbor in the middle of the crowd crying seriously. I couldn't help but try and find out what was going on, miss lover girl had been beaten by her lover again.
That is exactly what brought up this topic: CRAZY LOVE
I still cant bring myself to understand why a beautiful young lady would give her beautiful body to be brutally beaten daily by some hoodlum called LOVER. the most devastating part is when she is asked why she remains in the relationship, the answer would be 'I LOVE HIM'
what! love, what does love have to do with violence, brutality, and pain. Back then when i was a lot younger, i was taught that love is respect. So why would the same man that           loves/respects you inflict any source of pain on you especially physical pain. well i was also taught that a gentle man never hits a lady, guess that makes it more explainable, your so called lover is not just irresponsible and arrogant but also doesn't love you.
If you are reading this today and having a lover who hits you, do have a rethink because that thing you may call love just might be hatred and disgust and if your a guy who hits a lady try as much as possible to control yourself and if not, seek help because violence destroys and not repairs.

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