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Thursday, June 10, 2010 at 10:27:00 AM EDT
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Steven Monjeza and Tiwonge Chimbalanga, the gay Malawi couple that drew international attention when sentenced to 14 years in prison and later pardoned, have separated. Monjeza is now seeing a woman.

“I have had enough,” he says. “I was forced into the whole drama and I regret the whole episode. I want to live a normal life, not a life where I would be watched by everyone, booed and teased.”

Dorothy Gulo is Monjeza’s new wife and the freshly minted husband disavows any past with “gay trash”  Chimbalanga.

“We were pardoned but I know the law can bounce back on us if we are not careful. Although I claimed that I still love Tiwo, I did not mean it. I have never had sex with him as was revealed in court. That is why the medical examination failed to establish any anal penetration. I was coerced into the whole thing.”

Chimbalanga says he will continue to be "a gay." 

This story saddened me greatly. Who can blame Monjeza for wanting a "normal life," as he puts it? I am sorry that he feels this way and hope that one day, Malawi is a country in which gay individuals are free to express their love without fear of persecution.  

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